Hey Gobphus! I agree with you, my original post was speaking more broadly than my
own experience and I was more so describing what I've come across as a whole in this community and not directed specifically at ADISC. I haven't had any bad interactions here so far!
The point of my post was to give a women's perspective looking in on this and similar communities. If I feel it necessary, I will definitely add disclaimers to my profile but it hasn't been needed here yet.
However, i'm not sure I like the thought of anyone having to "ward off" advances. After all this isn't a dating site. I am in a relationship, but I'm very open to talking to new people and I don't take it badly or hold it against someone if we are talking and they simply asks me a question or for consent to initiate more than just talking - That gives me the opportunity to say "no" and for us to move on.
Not giving people the option to consent is where the issue lies, and the people who do this will rarely heed to profile warnings.
Also, I personally am not asexual in the slightest and ABDL is not unsexual for me. That does not mean I am okay with me or my content being sexualized however. Like, It's perfectly fine to post sexual content, just keep it in it's designated area and don't harass or sexualize un-consenting strangers
Sadly, we just can't trust most people to understand what "consent" is and that just because someone hasn't said "NO" doesn't mean it's a "yes".... Sorry I went a bit off track with my ramblings.
This isn't directed at you, I'm just talking.
Thank you for the concern and feedback
I'm doing just fine here and not having any issues so far.
Sorry again for another ramble