pampers4U
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We kinda of do the same things with our communication, I get little clues or hints dropped when it’s ok to be padded and when nows not the best time. We also had a few conversations of ground rules which we both respect.
Sometimes when I think wearing is out, I’ll come home and find a diaper on the bed, when that occurs she’s telling me it’s ok to be diapered. (She leaves later for work than I do, and I come home earlier)
As far as the messing thing, I personally don’t like doing it when I’m away from the house, usually when I do go, it’s first thing in the morning and she’s still sleeping so it’s fine because I do all the clean up, on the weekends I’ll get the green light to go when she asks how her baby is doing then does a sniff or pat test.
Again I can’t stress it enough, communication is key, we went 2 weekends ago to a whisky tasting event, stayed at a bed and breakfast, she packed the diaper bag and my onesies, so she was giving me the “green light” last weekend we did stuff she wanted to do (shopping) and I didn’t wear at all, I was the man last weekend, wined and dined her, and that’s how it goes for us, always give and take.
Sometimes when I think wearing is out, I’ll come home and find a diaper on the bed, when that occurs she’s telling me it’s ok to be diapered. (She leaves later for work than I do, and I come home earlier)
As far as the messing thing, I personally don’t like doing it when I’m away from the house, usually when I do go, it’s first thing in the morning and she’s still sleeping so it’s fine because I do all the clean up, on the weekends I’ll get the green light to go when she asks how her baby is doing then does a sniff or pat test.
Again I can’t stress it enough, communication is key, we went 2 weekends ago to a whisky tasting event, stayed at a bed and breakfast, she packed the diaper bag and my onesies, so she was giving me the “green light” last weekend we did stuff she wanted to do (shopping) and I didn’t wear at all, I was the man last weekend, wined and dined her, and that’s how it goes for us, always give and take.