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I'm double IC and when I have a BM, most of the time (~ 65%) I'm sleeping. The rest is when it's in the morning (and those rare daytime accidents). Obviously I don't feel anything when sleeping. Sometimes I awake but I'm too sleepy to do anything about it. But in the morning (~30%) I'm well aware when I'm pooping.
As soon as it starts (most is for strong urgency) I push it out. I'm not sure why I do this. Probably just trying to finish or maybe it's just a natural act. Do you push a BM out or do you just let it go with no straining? I'm sure there are some who simply have no control at all. I have some control but they are weak. At least when I'm trying to hold on it. Pushing is easier. I have better control with that. I think I push out a BM as just a natural act. No real pushing but I know I do. The only time I actually push in the morning is when I know I awoke with a load while sleeping. It's just a desire to finish what I had done when I was sleeping. Do you push?
As soon as it starts (most is for strong urgency) I push it out. I'm not sure why I do this. Probably just trying to finish or maybe it's just a natural act. Do you push a BM out or do you just let it go with no straining? I'm sure there are some who simply have no control at all. I have some control but they are weak. At least when I'm trying to hold on it. Pushing is easier. I have better control with that. I think I push out a BM as just a natural act. No real pushing but I know I do. The only time I actually push in the morning is when I know I awoke with a load while sleeping. It's just a desire to finish what I had done when I was sleeping. Do you push?