I have a question and I don't mean to be Blunt or disrespectful but do you truly have medically diagnosed Urge Incont or are you Diaper Dependent?(on your profile you list yourself as ABDL) Though they can sort of present the same there is a difference between them, the reason I ask is every now and than people claim to be incont but never diagnosed, then present a situation where they really want to wear diaper for whatever and its almost want an approval or be assured its ok. Like even if your diaper dependent or because of wearing diapers you bladder muscle have become weak enough you have the got to goes you need to do what's best for you,
like they way I read this and again I do apologize if it comes across as disrespectful or i am wrong, but I read it as you love to wear diapers and from doing so your bladder is potentially weakened and because your diaper dependent or close to it the procedure your having has the potential where this weakness maybe an issue. Though part of you have already decided your going to wear a diaper the other part is unsure about wearing in a medical environment or public so if those that need to wear diapers, absorbent products, or other means because of a medical need, tell you its ok to wear a diaper your assured its ok.
But here is the thing at the end of the day many people wear diapers or absorbent products for many reason and other people don't know, though my wheelchair helps hide things there are many people that don't know I use them, few yrs ago a movie came out about a quadriplegic and a buddy i have known for 10+ yrs asked some questions like if i had to cath or had a bowel program it was more inquisitive than negative but the point is yes there are some that know but for the most part like i would venture to say 90% don't know and its probably higher, so if your mission is to wear diapers like many people with medical issue do you can do so and with the right measures taken only you will know and as long as you don't say anything they won't know.