My bladder has always been a bit weird, but my current problems started with a series of bladder infections, the worst one spreading to my testes, and seeing me signed off work for six weeks. I was wetting the bed and not always making it to the toilet during the day.
After a cystoscopy, ultrasound, scans (discovering that I have a horseshoe kidney, which the medical students were quite excited about), and a transurethral ultrasound, I was prescribed Tamsulosin, which I still take (enlarged prostate), solfenacin (which didn't help the urgency and had horrible side effects) and one or two other medications that had no effect. Last referral was just before lockdown.
I wasn't offered pads on the NHS and managed things with Boots disposable pull-ons, until I discovered that I could buy adult nappies online at a fraction of the cost. At the time I think the threshold for NHS pads was incontinence requiring three or more pads a day. I only get through two pads: one overnight, and one during the day (in case I don't make it to the toilet), unless I am out and about and need to change. That is still over £400 a year though, so maybe it is time to go back to the GP?