virginiadiaper said:
I can’t imagine there won’t be more urges and need for continued 24/7 diapers for a while. Hopefully getting rid of the blockage will help regain some control. At least it’ll help protect the kidneys to be able to drain the bladder more. Hopefully it won’t scar back or that will suck.
The first few days you really should wear a pad, because after they remove the catheter you will dribble and may have small accidents, but they go away. And yes you can make it to the toilet for the rest of the urine.
But you'll lose blood, this you cannot hold back
I recommend buying one pack of thin anatomical shaped incontinence pads you can place in your underwear and are just good enough for one medium to full voiding should you get surprised.
But anything thicker is not required for this surgery.
Also after a week when things are slowly healing, you'll find you need them less, just keep wearing them until the bleeding stops and keep some aside, after a few weeks, the crusts start to come loose, this hurts and blood loss will occur again (depending on the size of the incision).
At first you'll have more frequent urges because the urine irritates the wound, after that it simply reaches the urethral sphincter faster because the bladder neck won't hold everything back anymore, but that should be a slight urge.
Only when you sit and then get up after z few hours you may get a more stronger urge because the whole weight is pushing on the urethral sphincter.
Listen to your body and go when you feel the need to, don't go too often but don't wait too long either and you should be fine.
After going on the toilet, its good idea to lift your pelvis a bit forward as if you're emptying a cup of coffee, to remove the last residue. (Physiotherapist taught me that).