Any Christian AB/DLs Out There?

[Bluebell742]

Hey everyone,
I’ve recently found God and Jesus, but it worries me that AB/DL is against God’s will. Not only that, but if I have a Christian partner (who wants to wait for marriage like I do), then I’ll be labelled a pedophile for it. I’m really scared about me being into AB/DL for this reason.

I’m not into AB/DL for any sexual reason, but I still worry about it. What do you guys think? Are any of you Christians? If so, how did you come to terms with your AB/DL side?

 

[MatalicPebble]

I am a christian and an ABDL as well. I don't diaper as much as I used to but, I really don't know what I would do without this coping mechanism. I think the important thing is to try and open up about it to your partner about this. Don't worry about trying to break the ice with a story. Just be yourself and be honest. You can't go wrong if this is truly who you are.
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My full explanation about being an ABDL and a Christian is rather long. I actually need to write an updated version of it. So, if are interested I can let you know when I have it posted to my public diary on blogger. Until then know that God loves you for who you are. You don't need to make drastic changes just because some one tells you to. God will make it apparent when you need to fix something. I have many convictions that God has given me.
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One of them is actually about making an idol out of my friends and families opinions. Should Gods opinion of your life not matter more to you then some one who does not understand why you do the things you do and the history or it all?

 

[DOT]

Ill put it this way. DL/AB is a selfish thing. Do not let it consume all your time and energy. We still need to praise God. There is no issue with wearing or playing in moderation.

 

[Bluebell742]

My full explanation about being an ABDL and a Christian is rather long. I actually need to write an updated version of it. So, if are interested I can let you know when I have it posted to my public diary on blogger. Until then know that God loves you for who you are. You don't need to make drastic changes just because some one tells you to. God will make it apparent when you need to fix something. I have many convictions that God has given me.
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One of them is actually about making an idol out of my friends and families opinions. Should Gods opinion of your life not matter more to you then some one who does not understand why you do the things you do and the history or it all?

Good point! I should value God’s opinion more than anyone else’s. I’m also interested in hearing your story whenever you want to tell it. Thank you so much

 

[DOT]

I am very happy you have found Jesus! He will do unbelievably powerful things for you future as he has done in the past.
Always keep your head up and enjoy your short life on earth. There is more to come!

 

[LittleMaddox]

Personally I'm Roman Catholic. This issue seems to come up from time to time. If you just search the forums you'll find some pretty extensive discussions on it.

My personal opinion is that as long as you aren't hurting others (i.e. doing it in public or in front of people that make them uncomfortable, etc.) and you're not sacrificing other things for time to wear diapers (for example not going to some social benefit because you choose instead to wear diapers or not going to church and instead staying home to wear diapers) there's nothing immoral about it.

Ill put it this way. DL/AB is a selfish thing. Do not let it consume all your time and energy. We still need to praise God. There is no issue with wearing or playing in moderation.

Sometimes but not always self-serving. Some people within the ABDL community form very strong relationships with others that go both ways

 

[siysiy]

Hey everyone,
I’ve recently found God and Jesus, but it worries me that AB/DL is against God’s will. Not only that, but if I have a Christian partner (who wants to wait for marriage like I do), then I’ll be labelled a pedophile for it. I’m really scared about me being into AB/DL for this reason.

I’m not into AB/DL for any sexual reason, but I still worry about it. What do you guys think? Are any of you Christians? If so, how did you come to terms with your AB/DL side?

You are going to be ok. you belong to Jesus now let him be you Big/ caregiver, he is really good at it.

as for your Little side and being in Little space Jesus is cool over it.

Matthew 18:3
And said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Luke 18:17
Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”
Matthew 19:14
But Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”

as for getting married if it someing that Jesus has sorted then you wont have to worry about it.

but dont let the Church push marriage on you becouse they dont like singeal people in the church.

if you ask Jesus for what you wont he will sort it out for you. just be sure you really want it.

hugs

 

[RedPandaDL]

I am a DL and a Christian. I have only been a DL for about 5 months and these thoughts have crossed my mind as well. As others have said, it is a matter of not negatively effecting others or your relationship with God. If you do it in moderation and keep your focus on God, I don’t think there is any harm.

I told my wife about liking diapers and she thinks it is weird and wants nothing to do with it, but it was good to be honest. I did also give up phone games (clash of clans and clash Royale). This gave me more time to focus on my family and relationship with God. This way, I have my diaper time and also more family time. I also enjoy wearing a comfy diaper and reading the Bible. My relationships with my wife, kids and God are as strong as ever.

 

[Seasonedcitizen]

I agree with the others. Don't make diapers your false God. That goes also for wealth, fame, and material things. As long as you are not sinning, it doesn't matter what clothing you wear.

 

[dogboy]

I'm a church music director and I've wrestled with this from time to time. I always come back to my commission as a Christian, helping those in need, being supportive of others and trying to follow the teachings of Jesus. He never said anything about diapers, regression, but he did ask people to be like children. I can do that well...

 

[RedPandaDL]

I'm a church music director and I've wrestled with this from time to time. I always come back to my commission as a Christian, helping those in need, being supportive of others and trying to follow the teachings of Jesus. He never said anything about diapers, regression, but he did ask people to be like children. I can do that well...

That is a great attitude.

My 17 year old son plays saxophone in our church’s praise band. It is great seeing him so involved with the church. I hope my younger son follows in his footsteps.

 

[Rave1]

I'm Christian myself and an active member of my church. I have felt conflicted about it but overall it doesn't seem like a particularly sinful thing. We have to remember that just because something is socially taboo doesn't automatically make it morally bad. I can see that if it totally consumed your life and infringed on your duties/commitments it could be a problem, but if you just do it as a "hobby" then I don't see much problem. It doesn't hurt anyone. If anything, I feel like allowing myself to have ABDL as an outlet allows me to let off steam so I don't get unfairly upset with other people, plus it puts me in touch with my emotions which allows me to be more empathetic with various people in my life. It took me a long time to reconcile these things but eventually I realized the only reason I ever felt ashamed of being a DL was because of the social stigma, not because there is anything especially wrong with it morally.

 

[PCS]

Another Christian here.

An imperfect sinner.

The sexual aspect of DL has/does trouble me but it’s mostly non-sexual for me and as I’m not harming anyone that part does not conflict with my faith.

My partner and I are in fact married but “wife” sounds very old-fashioned.

Like money, wealth or anything else, I think it’s important not to make this lifestyle your idol and forget what’s more important.

“Judge not, lest ye be judged” encourages us to keep an open mind about all sorts of people, I think.

 

[ChristianDiaperLover]

Hey everyone,
I’ve recently found God and Jesus, but it worries me that AB/DL is against God’s will. Not only that, but if I have a Christian partner (who wants to wait for marriage like I do), then I’ll be labelled a pedophile for it. I’m really scared about me being into AB/DL for this reason.

I’m not into AB/DL for any sexual reason, but I still worry about it. What do you guys think? Are any of you Christians? If so, how did you come to terms with your AB/DL side?

Well it’s in my name. I’m a ABDL Christian myself. I myself am a Reformed Christian but to me I can say yes it’s a sin because I treat it as a worldly desire and treat it sexual. I wouldn’t say it’s not being a pedophile unless you get turned on by kids which I hope not. It my belief it depends on how you treat your ABDL side. I myself struggle with it but I would say it’s not a sin if your just living like that and not treating it as a sexual desire. If it’s like porn to you or is it just another way to live is the best question to ask.

 

[BusyBritches]

I have a VERY long history of both being in diapers and being in one sort of Church or another.

Birth to age 13: Southern Baptist. (With a lot of LDS Mormon friends.)

Age 19 to 35: Church of Christ. (The ones who believe that musical instruments in Church are "sinful.")

Age 35 to 56: Agnostic with a yearning to be in Church again and open minded to many faiths.

Age 56 to 60: (Present day) Baptized into the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (Mormons) in 2016.

One thing I know for certain: No matter if your ABDL feelings are sexual, emotional, or both, I believe that God loves you and accepts you in diapers. Does a 4 year-old in diapers (who knows better, and has bowel control) lose the love of God because he's in diapers and poops his pants? I think not.

However, beware my brothers and sisters in diapers, your fellow members of your Faith are not as open minded and loving as God is. If you disclose to your fellow Church members that you wear diapers and have regression fantasies, they will suspect you of "sin" or even worse, pedophilia. Back in 1984, I knew a Church member who struggled with homosexual feelings and thinking he would find love and forgiveness, he confessed his desires to our minister in the Church of Christ in a small town in West Virginia. His life quickly became a living Hell, and left the Church depressed and suicidal. Please don't make the mistake of "confessing" anything to other Church members. It is a Pandora's Box that is best left unopened.

PS, If you are my age or older, you can wear diapers to church and no one will suspect that you are a ABDL because a lot of people my age have little or no bladder and bowel control. Diapers after age 60 are seen as "normal."

 

[steviet]

God created us and God loves us. I believe that God's love is a super natural love, not the kind of love that humans recognize as love. I believe that God wants us to believe in him and to love others (his created ones). God already knows you and everything about you (us). His love is everlasting, infinite and although we doubt that he could love us when we wear our diapers, I believe he does. Believe and do not doubt God's love. Love others as best you can.

 

[steviet]

I have many friends who are serious Bible believing Christians. I've been attending a Bible preaching church for over 40 years. They would be surprised and perhaps appalled to know I am a DL. The bible says.."all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God", but God loves us anyway !!

 

[SorcerorElf]

I don't think God would want anyone to put undue stress on themself for something that is harmless like ABDL, especially if it helps keep them from other things that are harmful.

 

[nightfox320]

*wiggles and hugs* hi hi I’m a Christian, furry, and ABDL. It’s nice to meet your brother. I totally understand where you are coming from. I have struggled a lot with my own religion and relationships when addressing ABDLism. Heck I have even tackled with these issues just being a furry. I think what it boils down to for me is idol worship and sexual impurity. First, there is nothing wrong with enjoying what God gave us to enjoy on this planet. He made this for us to thrive and enjoy. However, issues arise when we replace God with the world. So for me, being a furry / babyfur is first about balance. It mustn’t come in the way of God, my life, and the work God has in store for me. So long as it doesn’t become and idol or hinderance to God’s plan it is good. Second, sexuality plays a huge role in some AB/DL play and enjoyment. Again sexuality is not innately sinful. It is however sinful when we pervert it and go agains the will of God. Having sexual thoughts, and enjoying sexual stimuli is not bad, it only becomes bad when it encourages infidelity, adultery, and sin. So long as you maintain your healthy godly sexual relationships, there is nothing wrong with have, exploring, and enjoying a kink. In shot it’s about balance and health. God want use to be healthy and thrive on his word. So long as we hold true to those value and let him guide us instead of our diapers and fursonas, I believe we are no worse than the gentleman who enjoys a fine glass of wine or love his morning coffee. All are addictive, and all can become idols, but so long as we keep the true God in our sights, I think we are on a good path righteousness and obedience.

 

[angelicprince]

I have pondered the question of ABDL and Christianity for a while and have come to a current understanding of it
It isn't addressed in scripture so that means it isn't a bad thing, but neither is it a Holy thing. it jut is. As long as it doesn't weigh on your conscience, cause another to stumble, or lead you into sin then it is fine.