Subtlerustle
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Big kudos to you @abdlwife2003 for seeking answers. The truth is you’re already wise beyond your experience in terms of this community. You have identified areas like wetting that you question but not classify as offensive. You’re already establishing a comfort zone which will no doubt evolve.
It will be an ongoing process but as long as you both remain kind and supportive of your individual needs this is a tremendous opportunity to bond you two together. I mean it. Look for the opportunity this news gives you both.
For my wife, my desire for diapers initially made no sense in part because I couldn’t readily identify their significance to me. Once I explained the various aspects of wearing a diaper a DL enjoys it made more sense. Mainly that people find comfort in a vast variety of ways and people naturally gravitate to comfort. There are parts of her childhood that still give her comfort today. Maybe you can identify some of your own. For you two the good news is that even if you don’t quite get the attraction now, you’re not in the small but unfortunate group of spouses that are repulsed by the revelation.
It will be an ongoing process but as long as you both remain kind and supportive of your individual needs this is a tremendous opportunity to bond you two together. I mean it. Look for the opportunity this news gives you both.
For my wife, my desire for diapers initially made no sense in part because I couldn’t readily identify their significance to me. Once I explained the various aspects of wearing a diaper a DL enjoys it made more sense. Mainly that people find comfort in a vast variety of ways and people naturally gravitate to comfort. There are parts of her childhood that still give her comfort today. Maybe you can identify some of your own. For you two the good news is that even if you don’t quite get the attraction now, you’re not in the small but unfortunate group of spouses that are repulsed by the revelation.