I can relate to a lot of your stories of abuse and humiliation. My whole situation relates back to ages 6 to 8 years old when my mother who was a nurse humiliated me in front of family, friend, cousins. I had an issue with wetting the bed at night and wetting my pants occasionally during the day. If I wet my pants by accident during the day I can remember on multiple occasions my Mom would yell at me in front of everyone how babies wet there diapers not 6 year olds. She then would take me inside and spank me with a wooden spoon which I then would wet more and she would make me undress and she would put a diaper and rubber pants on and send me back out to play with just the diaper and rubber pants witho pants on. She would leave me this way the rest of the day until bedtime. Also I always had a rubber sheet on my bed due to accidents. I think since this time I had a comfort of being diapered because if I was diapered I was not spanked if I wet and at times I was given extra special caring and affection by my Grandma who would tell me it was okay and felt a sense of reduced stress in my life. To this day when I wear there is a sense of less stress and a calmness in my life.