Its all the usual stories when ever reading this topic. Obviously its not an easy task, female male ratio lopsided, too many crazies out there, too many fake profiles, scams as well, . Its a lot easier for men to hook up with men because males tend to like this scene more perhaps. Females tend to shy away from meeting people in the ABDL scene because of the lopsided ratio. Females in the ABDL scene too are more into role playing like being Mommies, dominating mistresses, or caregivers looking for a profit . You have to pay and arm and a leg to experience a mommy, diaper GF or caregiver scenario. I guess the best scenario is getting lucky and your vanilla partner may like ABDL scenarios to share with you. I find though its more rare tha not....I wish it was a lot easier on a whole. Its a tall order.... Id love a Diaper Lover girl where it would be genuine and not paying someone for ABDL dreams.