Recent content by tehse7en

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    Very new to everything. Please read and respond! Bf is a DL and I'm still learning.

    I'm REALLY happy that you are able to see the whole picture of who he is. To answer your question: My lack of self-confidence mixed with shame and guilt have been a huge obstacle in my path regarding my abdl side. When I first discovered this side of myself I was frightened that people would...
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    How to come out to my potential girlfriend

    This is very sound and very good advice. I've learned that while diapers aren't a huge part of my life -- I wear occasionally, maybe once or twice a month, sometimes more sometimes less -- they ARE a part of me and my life. I've also learned that I don't want to date someone based on diapers...
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    Very new to everything. Please read and respond! Bf is a DL and I'm still learning.

    I want to applaud you for coming here to learn about the abdl lifestyle and trying to accept your partner and even share it with him. That's huge. I've had the exact opposite reaction from prior girlfriends, so it's nice to see that some women are making the effort to understand it! Good on...
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    Kinkshamed on tumblr for liking diapers

    I actually deleted my tumblr page a few days ago as my ex gf had gotten wind of it and was giving me crap about it. My face wasn't shown in any of my pictures, but I got nervous :\ I had an experience in college where some of my personal diaper pictures (stolen off my computer) were shown to...
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    Hello from North Carolina :)

    Thanks dogboy. Yea over 400 people found out about my diaper kink, talk about devastating. Sometimes I wonder though, if somebody saw those pictures and thought to themselves, "interesting, maybe I will try this" hopefully it had a positive effect on someone! Yep, the south has a more narrow...
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    Hi everyone!

    Welcome! I like to flip houses, so far I've completed four! Best wishes to you!
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    Hello from North Carolina :)

    Thanks everyone for the warm welcome and also sharing a little bit about yourselves and your experiences. As Gardener said, the most challenging part, even harder than telling someone else, is accepting it yourself first. That's what I'm doing now! And it sounds as if a lot of others are...
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    Girlfriend of DL Help

    Well said. Just another form of underwear. And definitely read that book! You're boyfriend is a normal dude :) Actually I never liked that word "normal" because we're all "weird" in some way!
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    Hello Everyone!

    Welcome! I'm new to the site as well, but not to the abdl scene - at least in my private life. I've opened up to a few girlfriends in the past but they left me over my diaper side, albeit it's a small part of me, they decided to focus on that aspect of me, booh! I'm glad you are embracing...
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    Hello from North Carolina :)

    Hello everyone! I live in the Raleigh/Durham area of North Carolina and work in the IT industry in the area. Originally from TN I moved to NC with my family when I was six, so I've been here most of my life. I love the outdoors and as such went to Appstate University in the mountains of...
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    Girlfriend of DL Help

    DLgirlfriend, I completely understand your reticence regarding your boyfriend's abdl side. But like others have said, it's a small part of who he is. It IS part of him and will always be there. Usually the desire to wear diapers and be in little mode ebb and flow. I know for me I'll get the...
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