I, if I want the back wet, is wet it prior to putting it on. Lay out the diaper and pee on the back side. Allow to soak in a little then put it on as one does. Warm in the back is nice.
I have always recommend a wrestling singlet. Yes you have to take it all off to change, a disadvantage. Many sizes to be had and Amazon has some very cheap ones to try.
A wrestling singlet does the job and they are quite inexpensive. Can be found on Amazon. Lycra Spandex dries quickly. Yes you must take it all off should you need to adjust anything, but then I ask why.
It is a good feeling when the diaper fits just right. More times than not, I am not happy with the result. But those few times it is perfect it is happy dance time.
I used to live, actually grew up, in Pittsburgh, great town and I miss it. People are great and very friendly. A great many things to do in the city, and surrounding suburbs. Enjoy
In the warm season, in my house with a lot of windows its diapers or panties with a short t-shirt. Don't care who sees, I just hope it drives my neighbors nuts. When out wearing panties I try to have a long tail t-shirt tucked in my pants to cover.
Amazon has some singlets that would not hold up well during a wrestling match, but are cheap. Easy enough to try one. Now if I could get someone to "wrestle" me where we both are wearing full pee diapers under out singlets.
I am a firm believer in wearing a wrestling singlet. Easy to size for men, as I have never figured out women's one-piece swimwear. The lycra in the singlet will hold everything in place. Be advised that it all has to come off to change. I like it also that the singlet will not allow one to...
I have used Magic Shaving Powder many times. Not sure what I did different the third or fourth time, but it stung. Never happened again and that was years ago. One becomes super smooth and a razor touch up may be needed in some spots.