Hey where did you buy the abena x pluses? All I know is that you can buy the cloth backed ones here: http://www.medent.co.nz/MedentStore/ProductDetails.aspx?p=COBM4&c=24
Hi I'm in NZ and I've used about 2 diapers that fit your most of your requirements.
Adult Diaper Super from thenappystore.co.nz : http://www.thenappystore.co.nz/Results.cfm?category=33
I brought them once, they have a cute ish design but are kinda low quality, they didn't hold more than one...
I currently have:
- 7 Affective Advanced
- 5 Care Wrappies
- 6 Care Premium Wrappies
- 2 Molicare Super Plus
- 1 Abena Abri Form M4 X-Plus (cloth backed)
- 2 Drynights