I have had an overactive bladder and bowel all my life. When I was young I also had night terrors with occasional bedwetting. Doctors said I would outgrow these things. When I was about 22, I was diagnosed with an Anxiety Disease, which was precipitated by years of smoking pot. In my mid twenties, my overactive bladder and irritable bowels got progressively worse. I liked wearing diapers ever since I could remember and wore them intermittently, but I didn't want to wear them all the time. Eventually, I had to do just that because of frequent accidents. In the last six plus years I have worn them 24/7. I've gone through several Urologists and Gastroenterologists who have suggested I see a Doctor who specializes in neurology. The drugs I have taken for my incon haven't helped much.
Spaz
ps. sorry for the delayed response.