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I think sex is not something to take lightly, but also not something that has to wait until you are married. I'm going to wait until i feel like i am in love and i am with a girl i could spend the rest of my life with. No questions, I'm going to wait until I'm married to start a family, but as for sex, i dont really know. Maybe it'll happen next year, maybe not until i'm married.
 

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I don't know.. One the one hand, I think it's gross, and then on the other, mildly curious.. I've never been one to see sex as a casual thing, it's always been more of something with a purpose in my eyes. But lately I've been having so many feelings, and I'm getting pulled in so many directions, it's all very hard to put together for me.. I'm not sure if I want to wait until I'm married(which I don't want to be, BTW), or if I should have it with whoever I feel it's right..

So I don't know.. It's all just so foggy right now.. I need to defrag my head or something..
 
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I don't know if sex is going to be over rated, But for some reason, I want it, ALL THE TIME, even after... you know.

Essentially, SEXSEXSEXSEXSEXSEX! Are some of my thoughts.

I'm afraid of STD's because they can get by condoms and even without any contact, But, I need some sex.
 

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my partner and I enjoy our sex lives, Tho, we do even more enojy the nights where we can just snuggle together with out the thought of it.

Sex is not a big part of our lives, been together is the most important. We have it a few times a week, may not even 1 in a week. so my view on sex is... its not the most important thing in a relationship, but feel that sex between lovers is what it should be. Not random hook ups.
 

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I'm afraid of STD's because they can get by condoms and even without any contact, But, I need some sex.
Wait...'even without any contact.' I don't quite get what you're saying here, that STD's can travel through the air?
 
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Wait...'even without any contact.' I don't quite get what you're saying here, that STD's can travel through the air?
Super aids came faster then we thought, oh no.

(Sorry, not a serious comment, but the opportunity was there....)
 

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I'm afraid of STD's because they can get by condoms and even without any contact, But, I need some sex.
Whoa... Hold on. :stopsign: I'm no sex expert but I know that ain't right! STD's are sexual transmitted diseases (or now STI, I=infection), which means that they are transmitted by sex. I guess it depends on STD but I don't think you have to be afraid of getting one "without any contact". I think as long as you use a condom you should be fine.
 

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Sex is..to me..a way of expressing myself. It's an expression of feeling, of passion, and of trust. Yes, I've had a lot of sex, both as a boy and as a girl, but that doesn't mean I don't remember each and every night of shared existence like it was my first.

Sure, there's lots of dangers to sex - but we've been doing it; as a species; since the beginning of our existence, and it seems to be going pretty well for us :)
 

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I don't care for sex... but I guess I like to joke provocatively... I mean once when I was lying on my friends lap in a park I was teasing him and saying stuff like he'd die with me between his legs...

I remember I was woken up once by the sound of my friends ****ing in the same room... It was mean...

But I'm a virgin and happy to be 'cause I find no reason to have sex... I don't want to even be in a sexual relationship... Love to me is just a perfect friendship and that can be a boy or girl...

But in terms of others having casual sex... I don't care... people like pleasure and consential pleasure is a good thing... I don't think it has anything to do with love either, I think someone can be polygamous and still be devoted to one person... Polygamous people are just pleasure seekers... Of course the cruelty of the world means that people are neglected by those they love in them following their interests... So love is hard... can you find someone who is given to by taking from them and is taken from in giving to them...?
Marriage is pretentious on a practical level... I mean can be great to celebrate a commitment but it shouldn't be a licensing... especially if those who control the licencing are going to be prejudice about it... I often think its better to drop the marriage legalities and give those rights to committed de facto relationships... So religions can have there silly rituals and commercialism can still capitalize on marriage without it disadvantaging people who don't want to play those silly games...

I can understand people wanting to save themselves for someone... but it's optimism... Refrain from screwing people while drunk in some yukky place when you don't feel ready so your first time isn't a regret... but don't be afraid to screw someone in a decent consenting situation just 'cause you haven't taken a pretentious ritual...
 
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everyone her seems pretty conservative about sex. :-\ i find myself wanting to go explore sexuality in crazy ways, with crazy people. i think a lot of it is even fueled by this fetish. i think STDs are a totally horrible thing. I also think that if you use your head, you can avoid them for the most part. I want to experience it all. :-\
I am with this dude! I want to explore my sexuality as much as possible, of course in a safe way, because STD's are horrible. I think it is hilarous has STDs has people scared stiff here lol. If you use a condom and actually check out their pubic area visually before engaging and there is no visual rashes or infections, there is LESS than a 1% chance of catching an STD excluding HIV/AIDS. Now as for HIV/AIDS all you have to do is get each other tested on the same day and place, so you know eachothers status. So if you do all this you chance of catching an STD INCLUDING HIV/AIDS is soooo low, like .01% or less, seriously. All you have to do is take the proper steps and be smart and do not rush into things. Society has provided us with the resources to prevent STDs if you take the proper steps, so beause of that I think STDs is a very pathetic excuse to not have sex.

Now more on the subject of myself...yes I have had sex before I am sure you have already assumed. I have had two sexual partners in the past. My first was someone I was in love with and it was done safely. I am proud to say that today. We used condoms and we were both virgins so it was virtually IMPOSSIBLE to catch any STDs from eachother. Eventually we lost the condoms cause we were both vigins(she was on the pill so still was not risking pregnancy too much), which made it 100 times better, because you can feel every single motion directly. My second partner was with this girl I knew for several years, we were only friends but she came to visit me and I have not seen her in years and one thing just led to another. Now that was a VERY stupid mstake on my part. Even though I did use a condom, I had sex with her knowing she has had sex with 7 different guys, some unprotected. I did not break out in rash or infection or anything so obviously I did not catch an STD, and have had an HIV test since then that came up negative. So even though it was a very dumb move to have sex with someone I seen the first time in years, I made it through it safely with contracting any diseases.

Okay so overall, STDs are the least of your worries, and getting pregnant should be the second least of your worries because if you take the right steps with that he chances are super low. If the female takes birth control pill or shot and there is a condom used, then it is proven to be 99.99% full proof of no pregnancy. So again those are pathetic excuses to not have sex. Good excuses to not have sex would consist of religous reasons, or just wanting to find the right person. Even though I am christian I did not wait until marriage, because my beleif is if you take all the safe steps and yo feel completly comfortable with that person then it is OKAY! When I first lost my virginity at 17 years old, I decided it was the right person to do it with because even though we had only be dating for 2 months at the time, we took all the proper steps like birth control pill, condom, both virgins, and both had very strong feelings for eachother. Also most of all she knew about my infantilism and accepted it, which was my first and only girlfriend who has known and accepted that about me, so with that I knew she really loved me for who I was, and not what I liked.

only a virgin would say sex is overrated :laugh:
:laugh: That is soooo true.

Just wait until you all have sex, you will be like tony the tigger, " ITS GGGRREEAATT!!" lol. When your an infantilist and you have a partner that loves you and accepts and particpates in it, when you add sex to that situation, to me I think it is the best natural high and pleasure I have ever experianced! :excited: Although I still do not encourage having it unless you take the proper safe steps medically and morally.

On another note I have been absenence for almost TWO YEARS! Once you do it and go so long without it, it does suck because then you realize what you are missing out on. Even though I crave it a lot, I do not go out and just have sex with anyone who will do it with me. I still require myself to take all the safe steps, and also to make sure that the person truely loves me for me, only then will I do it, excluding that one mistake I made with the second girl and last girl I had sex with. Ever since my ex gf, the girl I lost my virginty to I have not seen one girl I was interested in getting to know because they all seem to be b**hes, or just plain dumb. :cry: (I am NOT trying to be sexist just saying from the girls I have seen in my area).
 
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It's shit. I mean... All you do is go in and go out again. Wheres the fun in that?
 

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Whoa... Hold on. :stopsign: I'm no sex expert but I know that ain't right! STD's are sexual transmitted diseases (or now STI, I=infection), which means that they are transmitted by sex. I guess it depends on STD but I don't think you have to be afraid of getting one "without any contact". I think as long as you use a condom you should be fine.
I think you can transmit them by blood, for example if you take drugs with a used syringe. And there's always the risk that the condom isn't working properly, or that it breaks (that's how I was born). But STDs are relatively rare, and if you use a condom properly, you shouldn't have to worry about it. Most STDs are also curable.
 
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It's shit. I mean... All you do is go in and go out again. Wheres the fun in that?
Haha, it is much much more than that. I am not going to bother to explain, because 1.) it is a lot to explain and 2.) It is hard to put into words.

You will understand one day my friend, when you find someone who you really love, and who really loves you.

I think you can transmit them by blood, for example if you take drugs with a used syringe. And there's always the risk that the condom isn't working properly, or that it breaks (that's how I was born). But STDs are relatively rare, and if you use a condom properly, you shouldn't have to worry about it. Most STDs are also curable.
Yes it can be transmitted by blood, like for example sharing syringes. Except that only applys with HIV and AIDS, I am not 100% on that, but pretty postivie about it. Mainly because I have never heard of anyone catching herpes, claumydia(sp?), gonaria(sp?), or any of those type of STDs through needles.
 

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I think you can transmit them by blood, for example if you take drugs with a used syringe.
Yeah that's true, I was just talking about sexually transmitted bit, I didn't really word it right.
Better: "Sexually transmitted disease (STD) is a term used to describe more than 20 different infections that are transmitted through exchange of semen, blood, and other body fluids; or by direct contact with the affected body areas of people with STDs."
But yeah, you still need contact.
 

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Assuming you use the condom properly the odds of getting an sti are minimal. Condoms can break however and accidents can happen...
If say you go in too deep over the condom. Also i believe that proper condom usage says you take out the penis before actually coming... how many people do that i question.
In any case be careful with what you do etc.
 

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I waited until after marriage to be able to have sex for the first time and actually found that it was quite a beautiful thing when it did happen. Sure it hurt a little but it was a very sacred moment and Im glad I waited.
 

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It's shit. I mean... All you do is go in and go out again. Wheres the fun in that?
Well for starters it feels really good and as any girl with much expereance could tell you, they want you to do more than just go in and out. Same thing when you finger a girl, thrusting (going in and out) isn't what makes it feel real good. There are certain spots that feel really good, but every girl is different, tho most will want you to do more than just thrust in and out.
 

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As long as I don't see it or hear it, I'm fine with it.
 

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As the unofficial CondomMan here at ADISC, let me lay down some facts.

Condoms, when used correctly and consistently, can prevent the spread of STD's 98% of the time. In fact, in some studies, the failure rate of condoms is less than 1%.

However, there are some STD's that a condom does not fully protect, mainly diseases such as herpes, HPV, or ones that can be transmitted via skin to skin contact. The thing to keep in mind with these diseases, is that they can be transmitted when there are no signs of outbreak, sores, or any other symptoms.

In fact, the most common symptom of STD's is NO SYMPTOMS at all. Over 3/4s of women, and over half of men will notice nothing different if they have a STD. The only way to know if you have a STD is to get tested.

If you are in a stable, monogamous, relationship with someone, then you don't have much to worry about.
 
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My sexual preference is often. :p

So what's all this I'm hearing about condoms with spermicides on them? Another ploy to get people to buy the brand-name or do they actually kill the sperm?
 
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