Your Views on Sex

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Charlie

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I personally would only want to have sex with someone that I felt pretty close to. But then I am a teenager, and I do think that I could just have sex with someone espically since I've been so turned on recently.

STIs (I remember when they called them STDs!) are a problem, but then I'm very sensible and I'd never have sex without a condom (well obviously not never) so that isn't a problem really.

Morally, I don't think much about sex. It's not something I think is wrong to do before you're married or even wrong to do with a stranger, it's just sex.
 

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only a virgin would say sex is overrated :laugh:
You know what? I feel proud to be a virgin. I don't advertise it, and I don't like to discuss it all the time, but I'm still somewhat proud about it inside my mind. And I also think, the main reason I consider sex to be overrated is because of people that consider it more important than love! :eek:
 
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orgasams are great really but actual sexual intercourse is overrated .... there are some much better and fun things you can do with a partner than just sex

and no im not a virgin :p (sorry to break the mold but then im not normal by any standards)

but then thats jut my view point ;-)
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I find it amusing that those who've admittedly never done "it" think it's 'over rated'...the old saying "You won't know 'til you've tried it" doesn't just hold for the question of 'Will you like broccoli?' you know!

On the other hand, I must admit that I'm pleased to see at least a few members of the younger generation not jumping into sex as just another way to spend Friday night..."Hey, let's go to the movies" and "Hey, let's have sex" do not equate! (Well in some minds they do, but anyway!)

I'm an adult, and I've obviously engaged in consensual sexual activities (having two kids kind of makes that a given, doesn't it!), I used to think like some of the younger generation in this forum "I'm going to save myself for my one true love and we'll get married and have babies and live happily ever after!" That's not the way it happened. I'll spare you the boring details. Suffice to say, sex (with the right person) IS all it's cracked up to be and more! ;)

I am really neutral about the whole thing. To be quite honest, I think sex is rather overrated, and it's been abused so much that the whole meaning of it has been distorted.
Well, the technical 'meaning' (or reason) of sex is procreation. All creatures do it! It's a natural thing. Sex for 'pleasure' rather than 'procreation' seems to be largely a human thing (although apparently some (other) primates engage in it as well).

teenagers don't seem to be responsible enough about it.
I agree 110% with that statement! The number of teen pregnancies is outrageous!

Although some would lay the blame at the parents' feet, it's not always so. As a parent one can only give his/her child guidance. Explain to them the consequences (STIs and pregnancy being the main results) of sex, and explain to them the precautions they should be taking EVERY time they have sex....condoms, birth control (pills/patch/needle, whatever! It's not just the girl's decision, but she damn well aught to be making a conscious decision when she agrees to have sex with a guy), and so on.

Girl's (and guys) don't leave it up to the guy to provide a condom! If he doesn't have one, don't have sex or bring your own! They're cheap and they're better than catching something he got from the last girl (or guy) he slept with!

Also, don't use oral sex as a substitute for 'the real thing' unless you're again using precautions. That's right...use a condom if performing oral sex on a guy, use a dental dam if it's with a girl. So many people think oral sex is 'safe'...it's not! Sure you can't get pregnant, but you CAN get STIs this way!

My final word is not 'don't have sex 'til you get married', but rather "PLAY SAFE"!!!!
 

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I consider the matter of sex like the matter of driving: It should only be done by responsible knowledable people when it's "necessary".
I mean we all feel the need to go places, but even though you have a car, you should think about whether or not other options are available - bike, walking, train/bus, airplane. Driving can become a problem for your money and the environment, so there's no point in driving down to the grocery store for some milk.
Sex is essentially the same. Our instincts make sure we crave it at regular intervals (aka being horny :tongueout:). However, one should not let that feeling completely take over and think about whether or not it's a good idea to seek someone to have sex with right then. There's always less..."special"...option to lose the craving. If, however, time time and the person are right, and both parties consent, I have no moral obligations if people engage in sexual contact with each other, provided they use the proper precautions. Just like any sensible driver will use a seat belt, any sensible person will use condoms. I don't care if the people are married, good friends or even complete strangers.
However, too much sex is a danger to your health and finances (when that condom fails) as much as too much driving is a danger!

If you're interested in reading what - according to my observations - today's youth's idea of sex is, feel free to read my blog/rant right here: http://www.adisc.org/forum/blog.php?b=180

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As long as both are ready, over eighteen and that one of them wears a condom, I think it's perfectly fine.

And having sex with someone you're not VERY close to is not very comfortable (psychologically) in my opinion. Then again, it's not like I've experienced it.
 

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i think sex is a matter of morals and religion

i personally have had sex and (of corse love it) but when it comes to morals
i cant just do it with anyone. i need to love the person. not necessarily be in love with the person
but love em
(i lost my virginity to my best friend, weve been friends all our lives, and being teens we were horny one day i guess (at the time i wasnt in love with her but i loved her). peer pressure did affect us, and we knew we were safe with each other, we have since gone out and had a stronger relationship and have been going out for 18 months)
 

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buttsecks!? WHERE!?

More seriously.

I have no interest in sex, however. I AM saving myself. I want that ultra cool screaming orgasm you see in all those romantic movies.
 

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Someone watched too much porn.

Porn isn't good for sexual relationship, it ruins the moment because you were prepared for something similar to porn (the girl screaming, huge cock =P), and it's not what happens in reality.
 

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Is nice mmmmmmm buttsecks
Yesh please :p

Seriously i do hope to find someone... I've been looking for a while n fooled around with a few guys hoping it would go further, but i'm not gonna have sex until i find someone and go out with them for a while... have a real relationship.
 

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I've tried it...on both sides of the fence so to speak, and although it is fun, it's not something I care about all that much. I think the person you're with and how you feel about each other really determines how good it actually is.

Sex isn't everything, it's just something that consenting adults often do in a relationship.
 

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I've tried it...on both sides of the fence so to speak, and although it is fun, it's not something I care about all that much. I think the person you're with and how you feel about each other really determines how good it actually is.

Sex isn't everything, it's just something that consenting adults often do in a relationship.
so true
the person your with is the determination on wether its good or not
 
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Well, I've had sex, as I already told you, and I think it's overrated. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy it. It's just with all the hype you get the impression that sexually active people would prefer to do nothing but stay in bed all day and have sex, and that it's impossible to just be "not in the mood," and that's not true. It's one of those things, when you can't have it, you want it, and when it's available you'd rather be doing something else.
 

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aw I wondered when one of those would show up.
 

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I wanted to give someone an excuse to neg rep me with the new rule :laugh:
 

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I wanted to give someone an excuse to neg rep me with the new rule :laugh:
IIRC by moos rule its only neg rep worthy if its makes the thread head in a negative direction which it didn't you shouldn't have to worry about it.
 

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I would have to say that the cuddling/foreplay leading up to sex is better than sex itself, and you can do cuddling and foreplay without ever leading to sex, which is a super plus in my thoughts. But sex itself is a very wonderful thing, two people consenting to spend their time together, and have a healthy view of their realtionship.

As for the whole 18 and older sentiment, I honestly don't see what happens at 18 that suddenly makes a person mentally stable enough to have sex. As a rule, teenager minds are not like one another.

Oh yes, wear a condom. Use water based lubricant, no oil, and make sure you can put them on blindfolded and one handed.
 
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