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starshine

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I put this in the AB section because I imagine it's the older members who are looking more for that perfect partner.

So, whether you are straight/gay/bi I'm sure a lot of us all have a vision about what we want in our partner or future spouse.

Do you want them a guy, girl?

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?

Do they have to look a certain way?

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?

Anything else?


I've just been wondering this, just exactly -what- are people looking for. I know a lot of guys search and search for a girl who understands abdl.... and usually get all emo about it when they don't find one.... so does them being abdl play a big part? Or are the other factors more important? Just curious :D
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl?
Girl


Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Close to the same age


Do they have to look a certain way?
Not sure...I'd have to judge when I see :3


Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
Doesn't matter on the job (unless it's like prostitution...), and enough money to make a living of themselves


Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
It'd help...A mommy would probably be the best, or another *B/DL


Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Not sure...

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
Closer would be preferred


Anything else?
I'm awesome :D
 
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Do you want them a guy, girl?
A girl, preferably, although ifthe right guy came along, why not...
Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Same age, maybe a year or two older, a year or three younger is ok too

Do they have to look a certain way?
Not overweight or obese
Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
Not really, although it would hard to be partners with someone who is not an intellectual equal
Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
No, although it would certainly be a plus. Playmate.
Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Well, it's not that hard to pleasure yourself, so for the right person, I guess it wouldn't matter that much
Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
I love roadtrips, especially when I'm driving, so why not?
Anything else?
Can not be an angry person, must be kind and accepting of others, must be willing to engage in physical outings (bike rides, etc.)...a book worm too perhaps?
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl? Girl

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? between 17 and 22...around the same age as me.

Do they have to look a certain way? I'm not a picky person when it cames to looks so I don't care what she look like.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? As a person who live mostly poor his whole life, I dont care how much money or what type of jobs she has.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? Really dont care, but it be nice if she want to play baby or playmates once in awhile.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Doesn't matter at all, who going to based a relationship just on sex alone?

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? Again doesn't matter, I'm willing to travel because I want to go somewhere new that I haven't been to before.
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl?
A Guy

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Older... At least 2yrs older.

Do they have to look a certain way?
No, but I do believe while looks don't matter you have to be somewhat physically attracted to them, so they can't be totally disgusting. They also -have- to be taller than me, that is a must.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
No, but I'll be damned if I ever support them, so they do need to have a job and a fair amount of money.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
I'd probably want a daddy, no baby and probably not a playmate. But this doesn't really matter to me, and even if it was diaper play in bed every once in a while that'd be awesome too.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Nah, I don't really care. They have to have a functional penis, that's about it.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
Eh - They can't live in like.. Taiwan.

Anything else?
I can't believe I forgot to fill my own out.
I want someone too who has similar interests.... of course! Like... reading, and hating the outdoors with me. :D I also want someone who wants kids, 'cause I do!
 

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Okay, even though I'm still a bit young I'm going to do this. But my biggest dream is to raise a family some day, so I might as well do this. Hope you don't bother.


Do you want them a guy, girl?
A gal

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Well, I would prefer around my age, but not younger. A few years (3) older wouldn't hurt.

Do they have to look a certain way?
Well, not really. But I've always seemed to like brunettes the best, so that would be nice. I'm a skinny guy, so I would not want an obese girl, sorry.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
Hard for me to say. But if they were employd with a decent amount of money I would be glad.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
It would make thing easier. I could go all ways. A mommy, baby or playmate wouldn't mather. But if this girl was close enough to perfection and not being TB or anything like that I would sacrifise that to get her.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Well, it wouldn't hurt. But in the end it doesn't really mather.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
Easier if they lived near. At least in Scandinavia och Great Britain. I would not wan't to go to another continent.

Anything else?
Well. She would have to like to raise a family with kids. That's not negotiable for me. Sharing my interests would be a big plus to. Friendly persons would be apreciated. I could ay more, but you get the point.


Just a minor dreamin'.
 

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I put this in the AB section because I imagine it's the older members who are looking more for that perfect partner.

So, whether you are straight/gay/bi I'm sure a lot of us all have a vision about what we want in our partner or future spouse.

Do you want them a guy, girl? A girl.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? Younger. Usually I am not attracted to girls over 25, so...18-25. Luckily I am A-OK being single.

Do they have to look a certain way? Well, to an extent. I tend to like cute over sexy/glam, but there are exceptions. Suffice to say, blonde/bronze is not the only type of beauty

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? A job, and preferably a mid- or lower-mid- income

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? No. I'm not AB. I don't even have to tel 'em about my DL side. But I hope they'd wear footed pajamas if I gave them a gift.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Nah. In fact, I'd rather do her than she do me

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? I've done long distance, but it's time for local. I feel a couple can get betterf only by being around one another

Anything else? No kids! Not because of my disability, but because I have trouble dealing with kids below age 10

Great thread!
 

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I haven't really put much thought into 'my perfect partner'...
It could be a guy or a girl, I haven't decided yet...
As for age I think they'd have to be around my age, I'd feel uncomfortable any other way.
I don't really care about looks... And I certainly I don't care about money or jobs or anything like that.

Ideally my partner would be a ABDL (caretaker), but that's unrealistic. I just want an open-minded person who would be willing to do sexual stuff in my way too :p.

Good or bad in bed doesn't matter, but I think any partner I would have would have to be slightly unusual in bed.... I can't see a a very vanilla person every really doing the AB thing.

I guess being nearby would be very important, i think I'd struggle in a long distance relationship.
 

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I put this in the AB section because I imagine it's the older members who are looking more for that perfect partner.

Since I did marry, I'll tell you what I did...and many of you know my college history...crazy, gay, drug induced, shrink... so you may be surprised.

Do you want them a guy, girl? Girl

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? One year younger.

Do they have to look a certain way? She still is good looking..a little over weight. I was 135 lbs at the time

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? No was poor like me at the time.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? No, and I didn't tell her I was. I told her of my past sexual experiences and preferences which she accepted.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Didn't matter, as I had done it all before marriage.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? Lived an hour away, she quit her job to be near me, then we got married.

Anything else? I knew that some of my sexual desires were not healthy, neither for me or the western free world. I didn't like that person, and I also knew that I wanted to be a good father, and a responsible person. I didn't just rush into marriage, but I knew it was something that I wanted. Many years later I find I desperately love my wife, who now struggles with her diabetes. The thing is, even though I have just recently told her about my ABism, we are a team. We accept each other and all our frailties. As for my children, they are the greatest. My wife and my children are my reason for living. In that regard, I am a lucky man.


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Do you want them a guy, girl?

Girl

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?

I'm impartial to age, though for obvious reasons they can't be too much younger than I am. Mostly though I'm interested in girls around my age (college age).

Do they have to look a certain way?

Not really. They can't be repulsive and the more feminine the better but that's about it.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?

At this age that won't really matter much, but later in life it'd be really nice if she had a job seeing as how my chosen profession (academia) isn't exactly high paying (which is bs considering I spend 12 years in college/grad school and even after busting my ass off for another 5-10 years I'll probably max out at around $100k. But hey...at least there's tenure).

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?


They would have to accept it and ideally partake in it at least every now and then. If we're talking about "perfect" though then yeah, she'd have to be an AB/mommy.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?

I'm asexual. So things would work best if she was the same way.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?


Depends. Right now they'd have to live near me. In the future though it probably wouldn't matter as much until I settle down.

Anything else?

The chances of me finding an asexual female AB are extremely low (so low as to be a statistical anomaly) so I'm not really expecting to ever find someone like that. Assuming I ever did start to search for a relationship I'd probably just try to find a nice asexual girl who's fine with me having a fetish.

Anyway, out of curiosity Mandi, how tall would a guy have to be to be taller than you? Assuming that's you in the avatar you look pretty small, to the point that I can't really imagine most men not being taller than you.
 

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Anyway, out of curiosity Mandi, how tall would a guy have to be to be taller than you? Assuming that's you in the avatar you look pretty small, to the point that I can't really imagine most men not being taller than you.
Hehe, thats 4yr old Mandi in my avatar. All of my avatars I've had are little girls that my LG self identify with, but she's the cutest I've found! :D

In real life, I'm not too sure HOW tall I am. I have been measured at 5'10", the doctor tried telling me I'm 5'8" and measured up to my bff we deducted that I was about 5'9". So I'm pretty tall either way, but ideally, a guy would have to be 5'10" to be taller, or at least the same height as myself.
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl?
Guy

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
About the same, I always said I would not date someone that was more then 4 years older.

Do they have to look a certain way?
Cute, Not "Hot", or any of that. I want Cute and Cuddlie

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
So long as he is happy with what he dose, or is willing to try and achive happiness

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
Mine is, though I was not looking for one.... But I have one now, so I am content.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
They just have to make me want to be in bed with them.... (I do not jump in bed with people often)

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? I would be willing to travil for a time. Though if it was for more then a year, and worth keeping, we would have get somone some moving boxes.
Anything else?
Willing to have fun, open to different ideas, and can deal with my Quirks. ( I have a lot of them )
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl? Either.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? Around same age. Younger or older, but by no more than 5 years or so.

Do they have to look a certain way? No, I don't have an image of my ideal someone in my head, but looks aren't that important to me. Personality and the type of the person they are is more important. Though I'm not going to lie, they do have to be physically attractive to me- but they don't have to be a knock-out.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? They don't have to be rich, though I wouldn't complain if they were. :D As long as they make reasonable money, then I can't complain. As long as we make enough to support ourselves and can pay off everything with something left over, I'd be thrilled.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
No- I'm not even sure if I would like that or not.. never met another in RL..

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Doesn't matter, but I will cross that bridge when it arrives.

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
If its a cool place, then I would consider moving.

Anything else? They need to be open minded and eat meat.
 
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Do you want them a guy, girl?
True female.
Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
same age range
Do they have to look a certain way?
no redheads, no blonds
Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
college degree, professional
Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
yes, playmate
Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
doesn't matter
Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
live near
Anything else?
no fakes, no lying
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl? Girl, though I would take a guy

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? Same

Do they have to look a certain way? Not at all

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? No

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? No, but accepting me is always good.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? No

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? I'd like to not have to travel too far. Maybe a few hour drive at most.

Anything else? Their name has to be "List" on these forums.
 
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Do you want them a guy, girl? I'd rather a guy.

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? The same age, or a little older.

Do they have to look a certain way? I want him to look good...not all macho man, but soft, y'know? Bishounen? Red or brown hair...not too tall.

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? Money isn't important.

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? My perfect partner would be an ABDL yes. A playmate.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? If we're going to be together for the rest of our lives, he better be. x_x

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? Depends on how far. I'd rather he live near me.

Anything else?
 
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Do you want them a guy, girl? Well, they can be either, but I have different requirements for both

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? Guy: same, or older. no more than 8 years older, though. Girl: Same, or younger. No more than 3 years younger

Do they have to look a certain way? No. Not at all

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? They have to be able to support themselves and be successful in what they chose to do, or at least make their greatest attempt to do so. they also have to be my intellectual equal, because as my best friend often says, "stoopidity_is_fascinating"

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? No, but it would be nice to have a daddy, or a baby girl

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? heehee...I have my own ways to...mold them. MWAHAHA

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? Would be nice if they lived nearby, but I'm always willing to try something new!

Anything else? They have to be able to love me, for the real me. For exactly who and what I am, and except that I'm not perfect. Oh, and they have to get over the fact that while I am blonde and I have a decent size bust, I also HAVE A BRAIN.
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl? Girl

Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger? about the same age

Do they have to look a certain way? not really

Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money? They at least need a job

Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate? nope but if she's willing to go along with it once in a while that would be good. She has to accept it of coarse.

Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all? Needs to be fairly good

Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel? Somewhere near then in the same house eventually

Anything else?
not right now
 

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Do you want them a guy, girl?
Female
Do they have to be in the same age range, older, younger?
Between 19 and a couple years older than me. She must be old enough to realize that we are not in High School anymore.
Do they have to look a certain way?
Absolutely! She must look healthy, and modest. I am bothered by extremes and cannot stand the anorexic supermodel look or the other extreme. She cannot focus too much attention upon her appearance. Heavy makeup, exceptionally toned body, and outfits perfectly matched and fitted bother me. Women like this appear too superficial. At the other extreme, too little attention to appearance is equally bothersome. Over 100 pounds (50kg) overweight wearing sweat pants has the same effect. I want a happy medium.
Do they have to have a certain job, or amount of money?
I could care less about these in a woman, but some extremes would be problematic.
Do they have to be abdl? If so, mommy/daddy, baby, or playmate?
A playmate would be awsome! At a minimum, she must be accepting of my DL and BDSM interests. These must not bother her! Her willingness to hold the keys or join in the fun would be a bonus.
Do they have to be good in bed, or does that matter at all?
Does not matter. I do not plan to find out about her expertise here until after the wedding.
Do they have to live near you or are you willing to travel?
I enjoy travel, but cannot afford too much.
Anything else?
I want a wife that pairs with me as an equal. She must have similar interests and goals in life.
 

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My perfect partner is this Russian clown I met while I was in Moscow. I had the chance to kiss her but I never took it. I spent one night talking with her till 4 in the mourning, I know she is perfect. She has a lil' side too, which made her very fun to clown with.
 
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