Eclipse, let me elaborate, lol, I was quite vague. I don't have general trust issues (Well I do with sexual relationships, but thats from something completely different) I meant towards the community, even the females. I don't tend to talk to new people, especially those who randomly message me on messenger, and I've never seen before.
Now, if I get a feel for them, sure! Why not! Lets say, Eclipse, I were to get an IM from you right now, I'd answer it with a fair amount of enthusiasm. I have come to semi-know you from your posts, and know that your not a creep, hehe.
Actually, there are a few members off this site that I talk to quite a bit, and I love 'em to death, one has my phone number, another my address, because I've talked to to them so long I'd trust them with my life.
So, all in all, I don't trust people at first e-glance, but when I get to know them I have a trust for them.