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diaperedteenager

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Just browsing facebook here and looking at all of my "friends" posts of :work tomorrow =[ and seeing pictures of girls getting wasted and doing NOTHING all day. MAkes me think to myself..."one day I will amass such a vast fortune and Empire that these people will wish that they took my path instead of theirs" I, instead of hanging with friends and getting drunk and high am going to work everyday and then coming home to work on my business enterprise. One day that will all pay off and I will rise above those popular people who think they are so high and mighty, soon I will be the high and mighty one while they will be the poor worthless pesant.

Anyone else feel that way???
 

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You basically posted this before.

I think there needs to be a balance between work and play. Just because someone goes out and has a good time doesn't mean they aren't going to be successful.
 

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I don't. I've never cared much for success (as in money etc.) when it's being compared to just enjoying life. I'm happy that through school I put more energy into my friendships and having a good time than getting an A in every subject. I drank, I smoked, skipped classes and just enjoyed the hell out of that time to be honest.

Of course, I'm luck enough to have had a very easy time learning all my life, so my grades are still good enough to get me into pretty much whatever university classes I want to. I know, the world's unfair, but as long as it's good to me I won't complain :D
 

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I think there needs to be a balance between work and play. Just because someone goes out and has a good time doesn't mean they aren't going to be successful.
I completely agree. If all you're doing is working, what is the point of life? What is the point of money if you can't enjoy playing?

And anyway, you're already sounding pretty high and mighty and full of yourself anyway.

Get over yourself.
 

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I think both paths are quite valid, just as long as you wont have to be working that hard all your life. To me, the point in growing your business should be to put yourslef in a place where you are financially secure enough to be able to have a good time.

Those people who at the moment aren't working hard at all and are just partying, may regret it in the future, but they will have had an awesome time which for many people is enough to justify the situation it puts them in. I dunno, I guess you should try and be content within yourself about the decision you've made, and be quielty assured that your hard work will pay off.

Posts like this do make you seem quite high and mighty, and to be honest you sound like a boss from hell in the making, making those peons "pay" for the good time they had while you were growing your business. lol.
 

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I smell a middle manager in training hehe.

Have you tried to form your hair into points yet?
 

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I smell a middle manager in training hehe.

Have you tried to form your hair into points yet?
Aieee! Let's hope not. More than enough of those.

To the OP: I think you're going to find that the need for revenge or scoring points on people who aren't going to ultimately be important to you just isn't worth the effort. Your efforts need to be based on something positive and affirming or I think you'll find that they're hollow and unsatisfying in the end. By all means, pursue excellence, but do it because it's a worthwhile effort and you want to do the best you can and then the reactions of others, whether positive or negative aren't going to dictate your happiness with the end result.
 
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Aieee! Let's hope not. More than enough of those.

To the OP: I think you're going to find that the need for revenge or scoring points on people who aren't going to ultimately be important to you just isn't worth the effort. Your efforts need to be based on something positive and affirming or I think you'll find that they're hollow and unsatisfying in the end. By all means, pursue excellence, but do it because it's a worthwhile effort and you want to do the best you can and then the reactions of others, whether positive or negative aren't going to dictate your happiness with the end result.
Like scoring with some of those wasted girls. I mean, come on, you KNOW WHO THEY ARE!

Half your work is done for you right there!
 

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I work hard. An I have plains that I will complete. But this weekend I will be gettng drunk also. Work an play need to check wiht each other. you would go cray if you didn't
 

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I think you just really need to get wasted or laid (or both!).

You also sound kind of snobbish. Some people will get low paying jobs and not achieve anything great in their careers. These people will not necessarily be unhappy!
At the same time, some people will have great careers and will be rolling in money. These people are not necessarily happy people!

Whilst I agree that working hard and applying oneself are important, I think it's equally important to not go too far. If you've got no drunken pictures on Facebook, you're probably doing something wrong. :p
 

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It's not difficult to work very hard and still not make much money. That's the story of my life. Of course I wanted to be a concert musician and a church musician at that. For 30 years I played the great pieces and played them very well. There was a lot of satisfaction in it. I still enjoy playing, thought now I do other things as well in order to make a few bucks.

Vengence over the idiots is okay, but it has a short shelf life, and you find out that they are too stupid to notice or care, so you might as well doing something you enjoy. Life is too short.
 
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Just browsing facebook here and looking at all of my "friends" posts of :work tomorrow =[ and seeing pictures of girls getting wasted and doing NOTHING all day. MAkes me think to myself..."one day I will amass such a vast fortune and Empire that these people will wish that they took my path instead of theirs" I, instead of hanging with friends and getting drunk and high am going to work everyday and then coming home to work on my business enterprise. One day that will all pay off and I will rise above those popular people who think they are so high and mighty, soon I will be the high and mighty one while they will be the poor worthless pesant.

Anyone else feel that way???

shut your fucking face and be a man.

do you know why you're not out living your life? because you're sitting on your goddamned asshole on an internet forum!
 

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shut your fucking face and be a man.

do you know why you're not out living your life? because you're sitting on your goddamned asshole on an internet forum!
You say what we're all thinking.
 

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do you know why you're not out living your life? because you're sitting on your goddamned asshole on an internet forum!
Ouch...that was harsh. The truth is revenge against you high school classmates never works. Don't worry about them. Choose your own path and stick to it. If you want to work hard every day and have your own business someday then go for it. Just be aware that some of those partying fools will also be successful one day and not just financially.
 

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I, instead of hanging with friends and getting drunk and high am going to work everyday and then coming home to work on my business enterprise. One day that will all pay off and I will rise above those popular people who think they are so high and mighty, soon I will be the high and mighty one while they will be the poor worthless pesant.

Anyone else feel that way???
last i checked, if no one liked you, then you wont be successful. going out and partying isn't just about getting drunk or high, its about networking. the more people you meet, the more connections you have in life. you talk about working hard, but i don't have to work hard to accomplish what you want. its all thanks to my alcoholism too. funny how that works, right?

i also want to point out that whatever idea you're working up has been thought of before, and its probably already being done, don't ride on a project that isn't guaranteed to work.
 
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I actually don't think so. Did someone wrong you, or do you just feel left out? What is it with teenagers and a sense of entitlement and marginalization? Chillax.
 
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What is it with teenagers and a sense of entitlement and marginalization? Chillax.
Every generation looks at the next [half-]generation and thinks this.

However, I think that there's something to this, when describing "The Millennial Generation." As a whole, they're largely illiterate, have no binding or orienting commonality outside of pop culture, and have poorly-developed and -exposed minds.

For the OP: You're irritated because others are going out and having fun and rubbing it publicly in your face? You may either conform, ignore, or transcend. It looks like you're choosing (at least outwardly) "ignore," and this is probably the best you can do.
 

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[. . .]

For the OP: You're irritated because others are going out and having fun and rubbing it publicly in your face? You may either conform, ignore, or transcend. It looks like you're choosing (at least outwardly) "ignore," and this is probably the best you can do.
To me it looks like a combination. He's ignoring in the expectation of transcending.
 
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