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Would you take your child to a AB/DL gathering

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Calico

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I'm curious, how many of you would actually take your kids to a AB/DL gathering?

The one I go to, it's just normal. People talk and visit, some bring their video games and they play but there are some who walk around in their diapers or in their adult baby clothes. Is that right for a kid to see that?


I'm just asking because I one time saw a lady arrive at the gathering for a few minutes with her toddler and he saw us. The kid didn't even look confused. He showed no reaction.
 

Talula

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I certianly wouldn't. I think because that for some people *B/DLism is a sexual thing, it's just wrong. Yes maybe a toddler is too young to remember, or to care, but I just coulndn't do it.

Like babies; you can't swear in front of them, but it's not like they understand it, right?

Uhm, so no, no i wouldnt not.
 

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Of course not. No more than I would consider taking a kid to a porn expo or any such event.
 

HuskyRye

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Umm....this thread reminds me of the "wear around your child while potty training" thread... sickening, and hell no is my answer.
 

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I'm going to shake it up a bit, and say yes, *depending on the event.*

If it's a diaper event where people will be dressed as babies, then absolutely not. However - if my child is a toddler or younger, and it was a meeting at a restaurant, and it was said that you are to dress in normal attire, then I don't see why not. If the child doesn't understand what's being discussed, what's the harm? I can name several times where inappropriate things have been discussed in front of toddlers, so I don't see how an ABDL event (where it was strictly discussion, nothing else) could be harmful, or anymore harmful than other discussions.
 
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dogboy

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It would be funny if the toddler was wearing underpants and a suit and a tie, being the only "adult" there.
 

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event's like that are for adults, and having children at them, seems inappropriate to me.
 

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If it was just a simple gathering with people in normal clothing just talking or playing videogames then yes but if they were wearing diapers or dressing like babies then no.
 
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No, absolutely not. I would consider an AB/DL meeting a very private part of my own life, and I would not want to unknowingly expose my child to something that may affect them later in life. Even if they were an AB/DL (over 18) I would prefer not to have an AB/DL connection with them.
 
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personally? no i wouldnt, but if the kids parents are TB/DL maybe he seen them in baby cloths etc so why would he be bothered?

also:

why would the kid be bothered? he doesnt no there people would love to wear diapers and baby cloths does he, so at the end of the day why would it be bad for her to take her kid?

i wouldnt ever take mine, if i had one
 

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No way, no how, no days should actual minor children come near any AB/DL adult gathering during which people are wearing babyish costumes.

There are gatherings called "Munches" held in public places as a chance for us to become friends. For these the rules are specific that all of us look like normal adults to outsiders. Clearly at public places real children might be present.

Halloween might be an exception when it is ethical to wear a big baby costume in public. I have done so, but always where I did not risk being seen by children I actually knew in real life.
 

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Never. It would be the equivalent of taking a child to a strip club in way. I suppose I could see some exceptions if it's like at some restaurant, and you all are just talking, but anything other than that: never.
 

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Not unless my kid was over 18 and an AB/DL.
It would be funny if the toddler was wearing underpants and a suit and a tie, being the only "adult" there.
No way, no how, no days should actual minor children come near any AB/DL adult gathering during which people are wearing babyish costumes.
These.

The only exception is if it's a baby/toddler, and you're only doing normal stuff, and you already know everybody who's going to be there.
 

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For those who say that you'd only bring your kid if they were over 18, and also an AB/DL, do you really see that happening? I don't know about you, but I'd find that way too awkward to happen. I don't want to relate to my kids on a sexual level.
 
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