Would you meet someone off here?

ben0510

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I genuinely would love to meet a abdl understanding guy off of here, or maybe some other site. someone who would be willing to talk about the abdl scene. willing to change my nappy, and all the clean up that goes with it. and also I would do the same for him. any other guys feel that way?.
 
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Yup. Almost had one setup on fetlife awhile back but he had to cancel due to covid. I love going to munches/parties, and would love more intimate diaper time.
 
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Probably not. I am not currently interested in dating (in general).
 
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I would. I've met people offline in the past, so it doesn't seem like a big deal to me. We wouldn't need to hang out all the time, but it'd be cool to do a shopping trip, grab lunch, or do a sleepover or something
 
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ben0510

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AJFan2020 said:
Probably not. I am not currently interested in dating (in general).
you probably busy. work? personal life? etc. so you are pretty well occupied. thats fine
 
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Girlowl said:
I would. I've met people offline in the past, so it doesn't seem like a big deal to me. We wouldn't need to hang out all the time, but it'd be cool to do a shopping trip, grab lunch, or do a sleepover or something
yes thats the sort of thing I would like. as long as we know what each others limits. the only limits I would have would be no blood. no life ot death situations. apart from that he could do as he likes.
 
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I recently met another ABDL IRL for the first time in my life. It was amazing. We hung out in diapers and chatted about diapers and ABDL and played some video games. It normalised this way more than just online chatting does. We are staying friends as well and hoping to meet up again soon. I would definitely meet more people IRL now. I was super nervous though 😬
 
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I have met people from here and FL and would do it again, have even changed people I've met. I'm quite open to meeting people and hanging out.
 
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Yes I'd like to meet someone on here or FetLife or other venues.

I'm always looking for friends.
 

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Yea sure, why not. But it’d be to hang out only, I’m married and even doing stuff like checking / changing diapers is way off limits.
 
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I am always up to meeting an person over a coffee/tea break and had met a nice fellow DL in New Orleans after briefly having a FetLife account. Not a lot of Abdl fish bite in Iowa though (sigh)…
 

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I've been thinking about it more recently. I set up a fetlife account recently, but I haven't really explored the platform yet.
 

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I would have no problem meeting up with somebody on here. Not as a date or anything (I’m married) but as diaper buddies.
 
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Nope. Great community don't get me wrong but id never do a real life meetup

Too many bad experiences in the past
Im happy with online only. Don't desire for more.
 

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I signed up for abdl match but I think im going to delete that account, Ive heard and seen too many bad things about that place. I might try fetlife but but I dont want to have kinky anonymous sex with a stranger. A real relationship with an ABDL is what I really want. I would love to meet another ABDL in real life, and just have a normal conversation with that person. I would feel way safer meeting someone from this site because of the culture that exists here.
 
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IamtheLorax said:
I signed up for abdl match but I think im going to delete that account, Ive heard and seen too many bad things about that place. I might try fetlife but but I dont want to have kinky anonymous sex with a stranger. A real relationship with an ABDL is what I really want. I would love to meet another ABDL in real life, and just have a normal conversation with that person.
Fetlife is not "kinky anon sex with a stranger" lol. They actively try /not/ to be a dating site. The way to use fetlife is, you find an event that matches your kink (like meetup, but fun) and you can then socialize and develop an organic relationship knowing they're into your kink ahead of time, so for example, you don't need to stumble thru the diapers convo at an ABDL munch.
 
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Mfluder said:
Fetlife is not "kinky anon sex with a stranger" lol. They actively try /not/ to be a dating site. The way to use fetlife is, you find an event that matches your kink (like meetup, but fun) and you can then socialize and develop an organic relationship knowing they're into your kink ahead of time, so for example, you don't need to stumble thru the diapers convo at an ABDL munch.
Thats good to know! I'll give ot a try one of these days
 

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IamtheLorax said:
I signed up for abdl match but I think im going to delete that account, Ive heard and seen too many bad things about that place. I might try fetlife but but I dont want to have kinky anonymous sex with a stranger. A real relationship with an ABDL is what I really want. I would love to meet another ABDL in real life, and just have a normal conversation with that person. I would feel way safer meeting someone from this site because of the culture that exists here.
I haven't gone deep myself, but one of my best buddies has had a lot of positive experiences through fetlife. She's made quite a few good friends and is currently in a relationship because of fetlife. She has had some weird and bad interactions in messages, but she said it's been worth it so far.
 

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Yeah i would for sure,
I'd love to meet and hang out with another wearer.
 
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ben0510 said:
yes thats the sort of thing I would like. as long as we know what each others limits. the only limits I would have would be no blood. no life ot death situations. apart from that he could do as he likes.
oh definitely. I meant a strictly platonic sleepover lol. Like watch movies, eat snacks, sleep haha. I'm just looking for friends. people to chat with. I'm kind of exhausted with hanging out with vanilla people. Want to see if I'd be equally exhausted with a AB/little friend lol (preferably a girl)
 
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