Honestly things like AB/DL tendencies shouldn't be mentioned to your kids, period. For the most part it would be the same thing as telling your kid "Hey there, I like bondage, what about you?" Things like that should only be disclosed in dire situations, like if the kid were to have a TB/DL side also, and you found out, or they came out to you. That way you could make them feel more normal. But other than that, like most other fetishes, I'm sure your kid would like it MUCH more if they didn't know lol.
I agree wit every single word, dang ultima, you seem to take the word right out of my mouth almost every thread! lol
Pramrider, from you have said, specially in your second post in this thread, has made me realize something I never realized you in the several months I have known you. You are suffering deep dark secret disease (just made that name up to describe what I am about define is going on with you). All your life I know you never told anyone about your abdl side, at least not many I know. I also know you never told you wife until very recently. So I assume if it was that hard for you to tell your wife, then you probably told very few or no people at all through out your life. Well thats a bad mistake because it seems like no your mind/soul (I believe soul) is trying to tell as many people close to you as possible. The people closest to you is family so thats who your turning to tell, to make up for all the lost years of keeping it a deep dark lonley secret.
My suggestion to kill this urge to tell your kids, and to keep it evolving from wanting to tell others, is to share your AB side a little more with your wife. Just sit down privately with her explain how you kept this such a secret for a long time, and even though you told her about it, it is still feeling surpressed. Tell her what you want, ( I don't know what you want so you got to decipher that yourself to tell her). Your body is craving to tell more people, so you want more self acceptance of it, and for your loved ones to know who you are deep down inside, so maybe you need to act out baby stuff more to get it off you chest, WITHOUT having to hide it from your wife. If you are able to do those baby things around your wife on occasion maybe it will give you that satisfication of acceptance, and ask your wife to show more verbal support towards it, and physical if she is willing (changing you, baby you, ect.), maybe that will help relieve these urges to come out to more people. Cause if you have one person accept it immensely I believe you won't need anyone else too. Let me know what you think Pramrider. You have helped so many people on here, it is time to help yourself my friend.
), but my deep-seated *B feelings are kept hidden.