I mean, yes it's a fetish for some of us, but for other it isn't even sexual, they wanna wear diapers for comfort and for anxiety issues.
Diaper are basically an underwear...
Why is it that as soon as we see an adult wearing it, we expect him to be strongly mocked, judged pejoratively ?!
Is it because diapers are associated with incontinence, and incontinence with our childhood?
And that an adult having a baby characteristic, well.. that does not fit in the logic?
Finally, when wearing a diaper is justified (medical), I have the impression that it's already better accepted by people (and still, it's still taboo), for example when we see an old person wearing a diaper, it's already better accepted, because we already know that this old person is wearing this diaper for "logical" reasons, and even in this condition it's not that much "accepted" and lot of people could find this humiliating.
I've literally heard some people talking about old age and saying they hate imagining theirselves being old and wearing diapers.
But why can't an adult of 20, 30, 40 years old, wear a diaper as a "classic" underwear without being judged, do you think that ONE DAY it will be accepted, well I don't know what word to use, I don't know why I use the word "accept", it's like saying "do people accept that you wear panties or boxers" it doesn't make sense, it's your underwear, it's the wearer's business, as long as it doesn't offend or shock people. But precisely, do diapers shock people? If yes, why? ?
Where it really gets stuck is with the ABDL diapers, with patterns, especially some particular patterns, there I recognize that it can really seriously challenge people not knowing the ABDL, who will see not only an adult wearing a diaper but also with drawings. But in the end, again, so what? You're the one wearing the diaper, and as long as you don't impose it on others...?
I would love to live in a world where I can wear my diaper with peace of mind, go out with a diaper (under pants of course! NOT a diaper and nothing else) without worrying about the judgment and look of others, I would of course do my best to hide it and not have it visible, just like I make sure that my underwear is not visible under my jeans, but if someone would understand that I was wearing a diaper, I would like to be quiet and not wonder if I will be mocked, if he will look at me very strangely, if he will shout loudly "look he's wearing diapers".
These are almost philosophical questions, I appeal to your open-mindedness, your seriousness, but above all to your objectivity, because it would be easy to tend towards a very subjective answer -being (AB)DL- but it is necessary to take a step back to have a good vision of this subject, and to be able to bring an objective answer, don't forget that for many people who don't know anything about ABDL, it is really very strange, and this is the whole purpose of my message.
Why is it so strange, could it ever change and not be so strange, now that ABDL is starting to be more and more widespread, could it really end up becoming as well known as BDSM for example (which itself suffers from a lot of preconceived ideas and mockery), will adults who like to wear diapers ever be able to wear them without it being an absolute disgrace if someone were to find out about it, and of course I'll say it again because it's super important: the diaper is an underwear, and like any underwear it should not be discovered and therefore imposed to the sight of everyone, I would just like to be able to go out with my diaper, hiding it, but without having really a fear not possible that at any moment someone will understand what I am wearing and that I will turn into a puddle as a consequence of the shame that I would feel.
Diaper are basically an underwear...
Why is it that as soon as we see an adult wearing it, we expect him to be strongly mocked, judged pejoratively ?!
Is it because diapers are associated with incontinence, and incontinence with our childhood?
And that an adult having a baby characteristic, well.. that does not fit in the logic?
Finally, when wearing a diaper is justified (medical), I have the impression that it's already better accepted by people (and still, it's still taboo), for example when we see an old person wearing a diaper, it's already better accepted, because we already know that this old person is wearing this diaper for "logical" reasons, and even in this condition it's not that much "accepted" and lot of people could find this humiliating.
I've literally heard some people talking about old age and saying they hate imagining theirselves being old and wearing diapers.
But why can't an adult of 20, 30, 40 years old, wear a diaper as a "classic" underwear without being judged, do you think that ONE DAY it will be accepted, well I don't know what word to use, I don't know why I use the word "accept", it's like saying "do people accept that you wear panties or boxers" it doesn't make sense, it's your underwear, it's the wearer's business, as long as it doesn't offend or shock people. But precisely, do diapers shock people? If yes, why? ?
Where it really gets stuck is with the ABDL diapers, with patterns, especially some particular patterns, there I recognize that it can really seriously challenge people not knowing the ABDL, who will see not only an adult wearing a diaper but also with drawings. But in the end, again, so what? You're the one wearing the diaper, and as long as you don't impose it on others...?
I would love to live in a world where I can wear my diaper with peace of mind, go out with a diaper (under pants of course! NOT a diaper and nothing else) without worrying about the judgment and look of others, I would of course do my best to hide it and not have it visible, just like I make sure that my underwear is not visible under my jeans, but if someone would understand that I was wearing a diaper, I would like to be quiet and not wonder if I will be mocked, if he will look at me very strangely, if he will shout loudly "look he's wearing diapers".
These are almost philosophical questions, I appeal to your open-mindedness, your seriousness, but above all to your objectivity, because it would be easy to tend towards a very subjective answer -being (AB)DL- but it is necessary to take a step back to have a good vision of this subject, and to be able to bring an objective answer, don't forget that for many people who don't know anything about ABDL, it is really very strange, and this is the whole purpose of my message.
Why is it so strange, could it ever change and not be so strange, now that ABDL is starting to be more and more widespread, could it really end up becoming as well known as BDSM for example (which itself suffers from a lot of preconceived ideas and mockery), will adults who like to wear diapers ever be able to wear them without it being an absolute disgrace if someone were to find out about it, and of course I'll say it again because it's super important: the diaper is an underwear, and like any underwear it should not be discovered and therefore imposed to the sight of everyone, I would just like to be able to go out with my diaper, hiding it, but without having really a fear not possible that at any moment someone will understand what I am wearing and that I will turn into a puddle as a consequence of the shame that I would feel.
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