Calico said:Well she made an awareness blog about IC and to try and get rid of the stigma about diapers and it was all great stuff until she posted that shit on her channel so it feels like betrayal. if she was just some regular IC person, then I wouldn't care. Like you I valued her opinion about the stigma on diapers and liked what she was doing. She wasn't just a blogger, she was an advocate and a fighter for the stigma about diapers.
I think if you are trying to change something and trying to change the world, at least be a good advocate, not post bigotry videos. What if it was a racist video or hating people, with disabilities or homophobia or transphobia instead she posted instead of ABDLphobia?
Sanch said:I get that's it's disappointing, but I don't see why I or anyone else should necessarily care. I don't need an advocate to use a paci or wear a bib. I just do it because it feels right for me. I also don't see us as a marginalised group, like people with disabilities or trans-people. People think our particular kink or lifestyle choice is weird, but ABDL isn't an identity, disability or orientation. It's a lifestyle choice and/or kink which we enjoy. If I got upset every time someone said something critical about the things I enjoy doing, I'd lead a pretty unhappy life.
Sure, if you're an advocate for something, it's good to be open-minded, consistent and fair. But I'm not going to lose any sleep over the fact that a supposed ABDL advocate isn't showing those qualities. It has no bearing on whether I do ABDL activities, or how I feel when I do ABDL things.
Calico said:It wasn't an ABDL advocate, it was an advocate for incontinence .
I guess not all ABDL are going to care what she says like how I didn't care what Justin Beiber said when he said something offensive that offended tons and tons of people around the world and I forget what it was what he said and what the topic was. But I assume all those people were his fans and liked his songs which were why they were disappointed while I don't really care for his music and don't listen to it so I was unaffected.
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Oh and lot of people still think LGBT is a choice any behavior with any invisible disabilities.
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I am sure if I made a video about religion and trashing people with it, I am sure I would get the same reactions as well for lumping them all into one group with the bad ones. Religion is also a choice and a belief people pick to follow.