Why is Ireland such an ABDL Desert?

Slip92

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I moved to Dublin 6 months ago and I’m incredibly underwhelmed at how sparse the ABDL scene is - I cant seem to find any AB friends, it seems to be far more low key than in the UK.
Finding good quality plastic backed nappies is also a challenge - Luckily I return to the UK by car/ferry every couple of months so I can import a couple of boxes of ABDL nappies with me each time.

Rant over, just feeling a bit lonely and dissapointed :(
 

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You might mention what you've tried. I'm not active on FetLife, but I did log in just now for a look, and it appears there's a Dublin group with ~80 members, and an Ireland group with nearly 300 members. I didn't look at either of them, though. FWIW.
 
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There is a group in Dublin and they are on fetlife called wruff & tumble they did an event before Christmas we attended with friends of ours from Belfast and it was grand. Look them up really nice group and good mix of girls and guys but I will say one thing Irish society is very repressive so events coming out is a big ballsy step for a lot of people over there
 

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I experienced the same when I moved here to Ireland/Dublin. But I totally can recommend to get in touch with the ageplayers group in FetLife. There is a monthly Munch where you can meet new people 😊 but overall, the scene is quite small so far ...
 

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Try living in New Zealand :(
The scenery makes up for it though. Seriously.

Your post caused me to imagine Vizzini from The Princess Bride, shouting at Inigo, "Do you want me to send you back to where you were, daddy-less... in Greenland?!" (And then Inigo bursts into tears and pulls out his pacifier. It should've happened that way.)
 
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I moved to Dublin 6 months ago and I’m incredibly underwhelmed at how sparse the ABDL scene is - I cant seem to find any AB friends, it seems to be far more low key than in the UK.
Finding good quality plastic backed nappies is also a challenge - Luckily I return to the UK by car/ferry every couple of months so I can import a couple of boxes of ABDL nappies with me each time.

Rant over, just feeling a bit lonely and dissapointed :(
big hello from the north,
 

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yeah it can feel lonely when it seems no one shares this interest, I live in america in the south, its not that I know there are ABs here, its just connecting with people is hard, because talking about sex/kink/whatever here can be risky haha

I am aware ABDL can be risky in general to disclose, but even so where I live I came out as queer and got threats So i can only imagine what would happen if someone "outed me" for being abdl

guess thats my fear/saddness :(
 
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Hi from Ireland, always loved my , nappies and rubbers, soother, etc all my life!
 

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I thought I’d found a European source for the ATN briefs there (which I rather like) but sadly they only have them in XS and S sizes in the children’s’ products section :-(
 

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I buy ATN briefs from NappyShop in Swords, they normally have all sizes!
 

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Hi im new here I also struggled to find other adult baby’s in Ireland. I only discovered this week that the nappy shop sell ab nappies I did buy other plain nappy’s from them before
 

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Hi All,

I’m from Dublin, having been trying to find someone to act as a carer for some time now, haven’t managed to. Tried sounding out a couple of female friends on the idea but no luck! Anyone know of anyone / forums to look at ?
Ps - I’m a straight male / abdl !
 
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