In my case, it's not that uncommon that someone else is going to see it, and it's going to be someone who cares about diapers (other ABDLs). This makes for some different calculations when diapers are fashion.I admit I like having a color/print choice, just like any other article of clothing. It doesn't really matter though, because no one's going to see it, not even me...much.
It’s unfortunate how so many ABDL diapers are too big on you. Maybe try these printed diapers that are available in size small? Your only choices are ABU Space, Little Pawz, PreSchool, Cushies, SDK, Rearz Safari, and DC Amor.I love the printed diapers (even though I can’t wear them right now :’( stupid living situation). I have wore cute printed socks since junior high (even when it wasn’t cool, I loved them!). Now EVERYONE comments and loves my socks. I also always grabbed coloured/patterned underwear - was sad when I had to move up to adult and they were only white. Now most women underwear is patterned as well (although the sizes got bigger so I’m back to size 16, woot! Cooler patterns!).
Diapers are the same, why wear plain ones when you can have fun and wear cute patterns? But most of the ABDL diapers are super big (hello 25” waist and 30” hips .... goodnights fit pretty well but most tape on diapers are too big) and thus unable to wear around anyone else without HUGE diaper bulge and now it has to be completely incognito because I live with my mom again and she hates diapers. So goodnights it is, if anything.
My last trip to the ER I WAS wearing Crinklz. Was I mortified, not in the least. While the doctor and one other nurse was like whatever, one other nurse said they were really cute and even wanted to know where I got them. Nobody there questioned if I even needed them (probably because I was there specifically for urinary problems), and not a one of them even hinted at any kind of disgust or resentment towards me. (though one nurse did say the teddy bear I had with me shouldn't be in a diaper).I’m medically incontinent. Over the years, I’ve come to enjoy the diapers that I need to wear to some extent, but I don’t think that I’m a diaper lover in the same way as many others who post here. I also have other medical issues that have required calling an ambulance on a couple of occasions, after which the emergency room medical personnel of course saw that I was wearing a diaper. Because of the fact that another medical emergency could happen at any time, I always wear a white diaper (BetterDry or ConfiDry 24/7). I think some of the printed diapers are cute, but I would be mortified if I ended up in an emergency room wearing a babyish diaper. Wearing a white diaper in that kind of situation is embarrassing enough.
I have not ever actually tried any printed diapers only used medical style diapers but I think it's a good thing for more people to see if you are wearing even though it is embarrassing eventually people might stop caring about wether or not I am wearing a diaper it is not a big deal to me so it should be no problem for any one elseSo I know people either have a preference for Printed Diapers, Plain Diapers, or for a few people even Medical style Diapers (I dont get it, but I understand people have different Tastes and opinions)
But I would like to know exactly why that is.
Like if you are someone that dislikes/hates printed diapers, why?
Do they look silly to you?
Would you feel embarrassed if you were caught wearing a Printed Diaper rather than a Plain White or Medical Style Diaper?
Do you like some Prints and Dislike/Hate other ones?
Same with if you prefer Printed Diapers or the Medical Style Diapers (ones with a traditional Medical Diaper Look, Wetness Indicators, etc).
For me I love having a different variety of Printed Diapers because I find they look more Cute/sometimes Babyish; Though not necessarily True to the prints found on an actual Baby Diaper
I dont need "Authenticity" I just have to like the Diaper itself (what good is it if the Diaper looks good; but doesn't function? ) and the print that is on it (whether it is just a character or design on the Landing Strip, or if it is an all over print)
And you know having Variety is fun; also I don't care if someone see I'm wearing a diaper (pretty unlikely as I try to be discreet) or what they may think if it happens to be a printed diaper (most Diapers I wear have an all over print; except for PeekABU).
I'm not doing it for other people, it's a part of who I am and I enjoy it and it helps me handle stress in a much healthier way than I used to.