Why did you become Adultbaby ?

[dhb150]

Hello everyone

Do you know the reason why you became Adultbaby, what are the origins?

If my question can disturb I have to remove it.

 

[TeddyJoy]

Won't speak for others but for me the answer is simply I was born this way. It was never a choice. I don't think childhood experiences could have changed it.

 

[thediaperedhusband]

I tend to think certain environmental triggers pushed me into wanting to wear diapers and act little. There were certain shows with regression that did it in particular. These days, it’s easy because my spouse isn’t into sexual stuff and tries to take care of me as a little to accommodate my needs. It works out that I don’t have much desire in that department either.

 

[LiLMaus]

Diapered at school, babysitters, grandmas, aunts home infront of younger cousins. When I was younger I was a terrible bedwetter and messed my day pants when nervous or upset. Diapers have been my life more or less. Found a great caring mommy (cg) who understands and makes me feel safe.

 

[Poobear]

Won't speak for others but for me the answer is simply I was born this way. It was never a choice. I don't think childhood experiences could have changed it.

Agree 100 %

 

[LittleAndAlone]

Won't speak for others but for me the answer is simply I was born this way. It was never a choice. I don't think childhood experiences could have changed it.

This. You dont become. You just are since birth apparently. Don't remember any trigger, just sudden unexplainable needs that come out of nowhere with no particular origin.

Many if not all get these impulses as a child when they are still too young to crave being a child 'again' and before going through puberty or having any physiological ability to feel sexual. It's just this random sudden compulsion that comes from nowhere, that starts as a young child who gets butterflies in their tummy when they are alone and see a open box of Pampers.

There's a feasible and logical explanation. It must have something to do with the hardwired animal instincts that lend themselves to desiring offspring, child rearing, parent-child bonding, etc. The need to nurture and cuddle and protect cute helpless things. And the need to be nurtured, cuddled, protected and be cute and helpless. All of which is intricately intertwined with functions related to sexual arousal and reproduction. These hard coded instincts seem to start abnormally strong and early in ABDLs at a time we are too young to even try to understand it.

 

[Katie2fingers]

I knew about 3 or 4 that I liked watching adults do baby things like ride a tricycle or fitting and being pushed in a baby stroller.. I hit 13, 14, and wanted to do baby things my self like wear white baby shoes, or ride a tricycle myself, or suck a pacifier. In the 1960, 1970's, I didn't know what it ment. I brought my first pacifier in the 80's thinking I was the only one attracted to it, but it really took off in the 90's with TV shows about ABDL's and getting on the internet and doing research on-line. I finally came out 7 years ago, it's the best thing I ever did.

 

[Cottontail]

I don't remember a time when I didn't want to be diapered and babied. With respect to diapers specifically, I'll suppose it's a coincidence of nature and nurture--some period of susceptibility during which the "right" things happened to forge a permanent bond. I led a pretty sheltered childhood, free of hardship and trauma of any sort. In hindsight, "these things happen" is the only irrefutable claim I can make, and that's kind of a big "Duh!" LOL. I'd love to know the exact recipe for my ABDL interests if knowing was possible, but it's been over 40 years since six-year-old Cottontail tried on one of his little sister's diapers. I've largely resigned myself to ignorance.

 

[BlameBaby]

Because I think everybody should be allowed to that's why. Everyone should be able to do that and have time of work and be paid. I think the government should install that you're allowed to have a child fit in public at least four or five times a week ( and by the way have a personal comforter next to them whether a dog or a person) . People are just so revved up.


So I had to separate myself and say you know I want to be but I definitely don't like the lions den 🥺🍼


I completely give up being a adult cuz it's never going to happen for the worst or the better more than likely it's better for the better.

 

[Edgewater]

I am 24/7, U-IC and found the existence of the world of AB/DL while understanding my life in diapers and although I have no connection, it was of interest because of the number of individuals that could not connect it to a specific early childhood link /connection.

I recall coming across several studies that stated the ultra-high absorbency and dispersion of the liquid away from the skin 'could' slow the 'want' of the baby to transition (potty train) away from diapers. For a period of time, the makes of disposable baby diapers added a wetness band to assure that the baby better felt the wetness and wanted to transition. Clearly, more science that likely missed the point, as I understand that feature is no longer part of larger baby diapers.

As stated, I am U-IC with a known cause. But it does not mean that I am not without a heart and that I have a want to understand the need to separately and together have a love for early childhood and the key definer of early childhood, the diaper. The point has been made above that many have found this feeling very early in life, either at or just after one begins to perceiving the reality of 'self' and prior to the introduction of heavier volumes of hormones. What tends to be forgotten is that the hardwired sense of comfort is fully functional and specific moments, aromas and objects could /can become 'imprinted' and likely set the foundation of AB/DL Just my two cents..

Yes, some of us IC folks can be a bit vanilla, but I assure you that those here have hearts and care for our friends on the AB/DL side...

 

[txtoddler]

Honestly - I did not become one, I was born one. I have always (and by always, I mean always) have been into diapers. From my earliest memories, all I ever wanted was to return to toddlerhood.

Why bother with the pain of holding your pee or poo until you find a bathroom that someone else used to a degree that you will never know. Adults just look for he nearest restroom and most do not even sanitize the seat before sitting down and letting go. At least if you are wearing a diaper, you know that only you have touched it and what you put into it, came out you.

Being in a diaper is just right to me.

 

[Drifter]

With respect to diapers specifically, I'll suppose it's a coincidence of nature and nurture--some period of susceptibility during which the "right" things happened to forge a permanent bond.

Exactly how I see it. People have known about this phenomenon for at least a thousand years now, and have used this knowledge when dealing with some animals. Modern people who breed and/or raise animals, especially those planning on releasing orphaned animals back into the wild, are aware of the way this natural function can sometimes produce strange sexual attractions that interfere with an animal's normal, mating capability.

 

[BobbiSueEllen]

Becoming an Adult Baby for me was because of discovering AB/DL in 1999...and that I wasn't alone or a total freak. Because of the discovery and also finding out there were those in diapers who took it further and dressed & accessorized like babies, I went all-in, converted to Adult Baby (toddler) before the 2000s arrived. This occurred 18 years after I went back in diapers, never looked back. Then, it went a notch further and I went toddler girl in 2019.

I've been an Adult Baby longer than I was a diapers-only person. Total time in...42 years. And no plans to retire, nor do I wanna stop. I wanna die in diapers, most of us do. I love my teddy bears, bottles, binkies...I love it all.

And when I add those 42 years onto my being in diapers as a baby for 3 years, that means diapers have been in 80% of my life. Yow.

 

[mistykitty]

I agree with what has been said by others here it isn't really a choice. You're pretty much either born with something that triggers it or you're not.

 

[Lyric]

I can't remember a time in my life when I didn't feel my best, secure and happy when I was wearing my cloth diapers and rubber pants. They've been part of my life for as long as I can remember. Once I stopped wetting my bed and no longer had an excuse to wear diapers, my anxiety level increased, I started thinking and dreaming about diapers more and more, couldn't keep the thought of my mother pinning my diapers on before bedtime out of my mind even when I left home for college. The desire to wear diapers and rubber pants, go potty in my diapers whenever I wanted and have my mommy there to take care of me, change my diapers, and hug and kiss me when I needed to be loved has remained with me all my life. Try as I might, I was never able to stay away from diapers for long, always returned to my childish desires to have diapers and rubber pants on and wet myself at home, in bed, or out and about around other people. But one thing was missing, I needed a mommy to take care of me, to change my diapers when they were wet or messy, to hug and squeeze me and assure me how much I am loved.

 

[todderhr]

Won't speak for others but for me the answer is simply I was born this way. It was never a choice. I don't think childhood experiences could have changed it.

yep, I was born a baby, still a baby.

 

[ReluctantAdult]

I actually came here to ask a similar question because I have been reflecting on that matter. I have no explainable reasons for AB desires. It has always been apart of me. It began mostly with obsessive thoughts about diapers and grew into other infantile things such as my pacis.

 

[Whovian2011]

For me it's weird to explain. I remember wanting to be back in diapers pretty much from the moment I was potty trained. But for the longest time I only considered myself a DL.

However when I was in college and had the opportunity to get some diapers I can't explain why but my first thought was "I need to get the most babyish diapers I can find!"

When I got them and tried one on and saw myself in the mirror... I don't know between the cute prints, softness, crinkle sound, and the way they made me waddle I just had a weird urge to start sucking my thumb and my mind just melted away. Since then I've always felt I've had a bit of a little side.

 

[eu38foot]

However when I was in college and had the opportunity to get some diapers I can't explain why but my first thought was "I need to get the most babyish diapers I can find!"

When I got them and tried one on and saw myself in the mirror... I don't know between the cute prints, softness, crinkle sound, and the way they made me waddle I just had a weird urge to start sucking my thumb and my mind just melted away. Since then I've always felt I've had a bit of a little side.

For me, its only because I can still fit into them. (size 7), also able to fit other children's size clothes, including footwear. And comfortably fit other items including car seats, etc.

 

[LiLMaus]

For me, its only because I can still fit into them. (size 7), also able to fit other children's size clothes, including footwear. And comfortably fit other items including car seats, etc.

Lucky! I'm so jealous must feel amazing.