Diapers alone just seem pointless to me. If they are on, I want them messy and the more the better. It is comforting to me for some reason I can't explain. It is a warm and squishy hug on my bottom all night. The preference is a real poop but being married I had to get creative. Started using the stuff used for mud baths mixed to my own firmness/wetness/stickiness and have never been happier...of course if the wife ever goes our of town...time for some alone time with the REAL "mud". So, who loves a fully pooped diaper for wear to bed? Who loves to just wear it around the house all day?