Who has a care giver/cg?

[eliblox2009]

does anyone have a cg or do you do it your self

 

[medfet878]

No cg here

 

[messydiaper]

Complex scenario. It took me 50 years to find a CG. Don't give up. And I still do most of the work myself.

 

[Bombshellbootylicious]

I have a cg

 

[LittleMaya]

My adult self is smirking right now, thinking that 50% of the respondents (that DO have a CG) need their CG to tell them that it's ***time to shut the computer and get in your bed!!!***

 

[pdiapered]

So one of my friends is a care giver to two gentleman who lives in an apartment together. I thought how cool it would be to be in there shoes. There not required to have a guardian but they have to be monitored 24/7. I don't think I would want it permanently but would be nice. I know the two gentleman an there very nice. Pretty much like a group home, but with less restrictions.

 

[Tetra]

I have full time care , though when younger and healthier I did live in care for Quad , having no idea I would be one myself one day . My caregiver does all the usual stuff dressing, diapering ,feeding , bathing , inserting catheters, medications , laundry I usually wear cloth so diaper care and maintenance is a big resposahility,along with getting me in/ out of bed and wheelchair positioning and securing my restraints so it’s less likely I will deform or be injured in the environment anything a parent would do for an infant is done for me everyday being and adult has some benefits like lighting my pipe or getting wasted and cross fading is a big help.

 

[claire123]

I have a cg my partner is my mummy

 

[Bigbabybret]

Caregiver can mean a whole lot of different things.

There is the, I have a BIG/Mommy/Daddy that lives with me, so full timeish.
There is the, I have a sitter, Friend that comes by from time to time and cares for me.
Maybe both of thoes
Then have a BIG that is phone/internet and doesnt live local, and can vary as to how much interactions
And many more on the "Play only" side

Then there are people that require care of some degree.
Wether that is help with doing domestic work, through 24/7 care.

There may or may not be any ABDL things in this space.
I for one with my last 3 GF's used my IC issues to actually try/introduce ABDL aspects to me over many years.
I wasnt a diaper lover, being Night IC, and could be ok if within a few mins of bathroom...wasnt a real "fan" of diapers and especially when younger didnt know this was even a thing, and feeling less for the issues, especially being as old as I am too.

Anyhow, so I'm not much an AB, albeit I do have have some tendencies towards that side...Being I have NO willpower when it comes to most things (and usually my ipad is disabled at night, but special circumstances tonight).
I do utilize the advances in products from the AB community all the time, from better diapers (i use north shore), to pajamas like LKS and sippy cups (also keeps the cat from drinking out of my water ), to things like internet filtering/limits (Screentime and Qustodio).

These "tools" accomplish the exact need I have, IC and not leaking is a plus, and having ipad shut down so i'm not on ADISC all night , to honestly not seeing the porn ads on certain sights i goto, or even getting porn results in search engnes are great! The should actually market web filtering to adults, make it not say child on it, i think a lot of people would pay for not seeing lots of porn show up, andn disable it when you do. I dont have the option to disable it as i dont know the code.

So, I have garegivers, and they help with shopping, cooking, cleaning, washing, if i go out with the wheelchair, getting meds on-time, to yes getting to bed.

So, being that thee is a lot of overlap in areas, ive left no vote, as I dont have a mommy/daddy/sitter type of relationship, and don't play with blocks on the floor (and might not be able to get back up) or do any sorta roleplay or anything.
But, i do have them say to get to bed, and they say when the ipad is off (internet off), and when meals are, and med times, usually keep care of my schedule and alike.

I'd say yes, but i think the real question is do you have someone as a BIG might be more what is being meant i think.

 

[nappybaby]

I dont but i would love having a carer!

 

[JaysonTheRegressor]

Both yes and no

My fiancee doesnt want the full responsibility and such that comes with a full littlespace mindset but the way she cares after me on the regular satisfies that side of my brain anyway!
The way she talks to me and all the nicknames and how she calls me her precious baby boy it works out perfectly!

Recently she's been more observant and noticing when I start slipping small
When she was doing my diaper tapes she noticed I had started to slip and she goes for the first time "Is someone a little Little?" and I almost slipped into full space there

The second time she said that was last night when we were watching Trollhunters and I was getting more giggly and she called me precious and I giggled while I nuzzled into her arm and she said it again! "Is someone a little Little?" And I didnt even realize I was slipping until she said that which again almost sent me into full little mode

Even though it may not count to some, it certainly counts to me!!!!

 

[nappybaby]

Both yes and no

My fiancee doesnt want the full responsibility and such that comes with a full littlespace mindset but the way she cares after me on the regular satisfies that side of my brain anyway!
The way she talks to me and all the nicknames and how she calls me her precious baby boy it works out perfectly!

Recently she's been more observant and noticing when I start slipping small
When she was doing my diaper tapes she noticed I had started to slip and she goes for the first time "Is someone a little Little?" and I almost slipped into full space there

The second time she said that was last night when we were watching Trollhunters and I was getting more giggly and she called me precious and I giggled while I nuzzled into her arm and she said it again! "Is someone a little Little?" And I didnt even realize I was slipping until she said that which again almost sent me into full little mode

Even though it may not count to some, it certainly counts to me!!!!

awwwwwww, thats soo adorable!

 

[TabaCrate]

Both yes and no.

I met friends a bunch of years ago that are ABDL. I wasn't in the CG LB mindset.
I took time but one day, someone changed my diaper and I discovered how emotionally intense it was.
After that, I took care of someone for an entire day and it was very rewarding because I knew how much emotions I was giving.
The next day, I had the chance to receive a full little time (bottle feed, changed, bath time, ...)...

Today, I love to switch during a week-end...

 

[Elmo]

If I had a caregiver, they'd have to be my wife.

A Little/CG relationship is really intimate (not sexually, just on an emotional level) for me because I'd see my CG as a caring, loving mother figure, and I wouldn't be comfortable having that kind of relationship with anyone else other than my wife.

And I haven't found that special person yet, so no CG for me. Maybe one day 😉

 

[Forced]

My GF puts me in nappies/plastic pants and will deal with the wet changes but we don’t play AB games even though she calls go herself “Mummy” in cards and on gift tags.

 

[Ashton84]

Yes, my wife and sometimes SIL when she’s visiting. We also have a sweet lady to help with the house and she helps if my wife is busy or away. I have had others though out the years.

 

[katierichards7777]

I am ABDL but I also want to be a caregiver. Does anyone else support that dynamic? I know it's odd

 

[Turfy]

I am ABDL but I also want to be a caregiver. Does anyone else support that dynamic? I know it's odd

This is actually very common in the community, and is known as being a "switch." Switches, in any D/s dynamic, including CG/Little, are fairly common, as we are multi-faceted beings. I'll call myself a latent switch, my big side is mostly dormant, but still there from time to time for the right person/situation; however, for many years, I was mostly a CG. I love giving care and making partners feel loved and secure, it just feels amzingly empowering, and I dunna, righteous? I'm also most always a Dom in the bedroom.

There is nothing odd here in being a switch, as a matter of fact, they often make some of the best informed CGs, because they understand both sides. It can be a struggle at times, honestly, but I have gone down an amazing journey, and still enjoy exploring new, amazing relationships with others and seeing where the dynamic goes. Even though I am pretty set as a Little/Sub, and CG/Doms are what I am looking for these days (I'm Poly), One of my most recent developments has me in more of a Daddy role in many ways, because that is just what feels like coming out.

Anyway, feel free to explore all sides of the dynamic, and make sure to educate yourself!

Also yes, I do technically have a CG(limited), and I count myself blessed every day for her.

 

[katierichards7777]

This is actually very common in the community, and is known as being a "switch." Switches, in any D/s dynamic, including CG/Little, are fairly common, as we are multi-faceted beings. I'll call myself a latent switch, my big side is mostly dormant, but still there from time to time for the right person/situation; however, for many years, I was mostly a CG. I love giving care and making partners feel loved and secure, it just feels amzingly empowering, and I dunna, righteous? I'm also most always a Dom in the bedroom.

There is nothing odd here in being a switch, as a matter of fact, they often make some of the best informed CGs, because they understand both sides. It can be a struggle at times, honestly, but I have gone down an amazing journey, and still enjoy exploring new, amazing relationships with others and seeing where the dynamic goes. Even though I am pretty set as a Little/Sub, and CG/Doms are what I am looking for these days (I'm Poly), One of my most recent developments has me in more of a Daddy role in many ways, because that is just what feels like coming out.

Anyway, feel free to explore all sides of the dynamic, and make sure to educate yourself!

Also yes, I do technically have a CG(limited), and I count myself blessed every day for her.

Thanks for this awesome explanation!! I hope to find a little that I can share life with in this capacity someday

 

[nappybaby]

its really hard for me to find a cg, because everyone is living so far away