My diaper change was 100% normal to me, but I’ve learned that there is no “normal” in diapering as a kid & bedwetter. I was trained late - I was still potty training at 4, but my parents treated my Pull-ups like underwear. If I was wet, I was guided through a change and my mom or dad would help me and make sure I was cleaning myself fully. At night, I wore a true diaper and my parents would have me lay down on the changing table and they’d diaper me the same way as a baby, normally at the same time as my younger sister. Once I started school and was potty trained, they would still put me in a diaper at night either my having me lay on the changing table or by holding my Pull-up or by watching me do it. They always forced independence on me, which I am grateful for. After I got older, I’d just have to show them I was wearing protection at night and eventually, they trusted me enough to not show them my diaper, though, I know they definitely snuck in to see if I was wearing a diaper at night on a few occasions.