Well i was searching a forum and i saw this posted up... what are guys opinions about this?
I wish that your idea could work B. It would show everyone that this is not all it's cracked up to be. I too used to wish I was incontinent, but when it happened for real, it really opened my eyes to the hassles and problems it really causes. I would like nothing more than to be continent again, to have a choice in when I can wear. Don't get me wrong, I still like to wear, but it would be nice to walk around in tighty whities once in a while without worrying about crapping or peeing in them.I enjoy my diaper time but would not, want to be incontenent, I feel sorry for those who are they have no choice in the matter.
I think if everyone had to wear a diaper, and use it, for at least one week, they would know what it feels like for those who have to wear diapers, and they would be much kinder to those who do need them.
I think different people want different things. I have certainly seen diaper loving folks state a clear desire to be incontinent, however misguided it is, so I don't think that's just a simple misunderstanding. I'm not incontinent, nor do I desire to be, but if I were, I think my biggest desire would be to be cured. As an adult, I really wouldn't need to share incontinence much with others and if I did, I'd expect general understanding and well-meaning pity (the latter would likely be annoying, but I'm just trying to be a realist). It doesn't sound to me like you really want the same thing at all.What a lot of incon people do not get is that we do not want to loose control. The desire is not to be required to have control. We do not want to loose control and get laughed at or be embarassed. We want choose to go and have everyone be ok with it, and maybye be saying "aw.. how cute, poor little guy". Being incon sucks. Incon and ABs want the same thing, for it to be acceptable for us not to be potty trained!