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Hi again or just hi depending on if you are reading this as the second question or the first question I am posting. Anyhoo (again).
Time and time again we see as a result of the cross intersection of this sub-forum (incontinence) a range of curiosity to trolling questions regarding incontinence from non-incontinent peeps; curiosity, your dx/approaches/stories, self-okay-ness, and a slew of other things. There are some really interesting questions-posts some more medical (IC -cystitis using the acronym correctly, appliances, pelvic floor, IBS, etc) and emotional (coping and supporting).
So, my question or maybe more of my line v your line, asking what is your line. I view the forum and this (incontinence) sub as respectful discussions and curiosity but, some questions, responses cross my line of acceptance. We all have a different lines hence, mx + b. I try to view it as more of a nth polynomial, fuzzy, than linear - that's vague. Mainly for me it is tone and perceived exploitive-ness of the message that affects my ire. What about yourself?
Second, how do you view declaring yourself DL, AB, ABDL, or little, or _____ AND incontinent. Obviously, there is tension between these ABCs and incontinence. Does this define your line? Do others and for yourself declaring their/your like of _____ in your mind delegitimize your incontinence?
I don't think I captured what I am asking very well. Maybe others can pipe in with their thoughts.
Time and time again we see as a result of the cross intersection of this sub-forum (incontinence) a range of curiosity to trolling questions regarding incontinence from non-incontinent peeps; curiosity, your dx/approaches/stories, self-okay-ness, and a slew of other things. There are some really interesting questions-posts some more medical (IC -cystitis using the acronym correctly, appliances, pelvic floor, IBS, etc) and emotional (coping and supporting).
So, my question or maybe more of my line v your line, asking what is your line. I view the forum and this (incontinence) sub as respectful discussions and curiosity but, some questions, responses cross my line of acceptance. We all have a different lines hence, mx + b. I try to view it as more of a nth polynomial, fuzzy, than linear - that's vague. Mainly for me it is tone and perceived exploitive-ness of the message that affects my ire. What about yourself?
Second, how do you view declaring yourself DL, AB, ABDL, or little, or _____ AND incontinent. Obviously, there is tension between these ABCs and incontinence. Does this define your line? Do others and for yourself declaring their/your like of _____ in your mind delegitimize your incontinence?
I don't think I captured what I am asking very well. Maybe others can pipe in with their thoughts.