- Diaper Lover
I think it is a matter of personal taste. I happen to like sudden voiding, having to wear diapers for that reason just to avoid embarrassing situations.Incontinence is not what it is hyped up to be. First of all the constant dribble or sudden voiding can be very embarrassing let alone be a severe downer on a person.
I try to keep them hidden and so far (after many years of wearing them in public) no one noticed. For me it's part of the game to keep your diapers hidden being one of the last taboos. I don't know why you're having trouble with it, but I can tell exactly when my diaper is getting soaked. Nevertheless I use plastic pants over my diapers for extra protection and ever since I started using them I never had any leakage. The same applies to wearing diapers at night.There is the diapers themselves; do you tell others or keep them hidden? The leaks and spots when you don't realize that you are soaked through. Having to wake up at night to change as most if not all diapers will leak. Yes I have not found one yet that lasts all night.
I can only speak for myself off course when I say that I never had any pain, UTI's or atrophying muscles. That is after using my special P-device for at least hundreds of times , but maybe I'm just a lucky bastard.