i pick really selectively from the members-only forums, tb, ab, diaper talk, administrative, and off-topic. i read the intros every few days or so. i never even go into any of the other forums. and even in the forums that i do read, i usually leave the majority of the threads unread.
i've never really spent much time in any message board other than this one, but it almost scares me how active this place is. probably most of the stuff that happens in this community takes place entirely without my awareness!