Okay before me or anyone can give you some reliable help I have some qeustions...
1.) What kind of diapers do you wear/use?
2.) How long have you worn diapers for (when was first time your tried diapers?)
3.)
About How long (in seconds) do you pee for on average?
The only thing I can give you advice for from the information you gave is how to pee more easily. It is a very common thing for people to have trouble peeing in diapers, specially when your relatiely new to it. There are several things you can do to help yoursel pee when you want. If I understand you correctly the only way you can pee in a diaper is from locking the bathroom door and drinking lots of water so that you have to pee a lot, correct?
Well if that is what you ment here are some things to try....
1.) Try peeing sitting on the toilet with just a diaper and a shirt. This will trick your mind into thinking that because your in the bathroom sitting on the potty, that it will be okay to pee and your bladder will relax more easily.
2.) Try wearing more often, because the more you practice the easier it will get to relax enough to pee when you want. Eventually with enough practice you will be able to pee even when you only need to go a little, and in any position. If your worried about people noticing just ask and I will give you some tips on how to hide that too.
3.) Try peeing in different positions like, standing, sitting, squating, laying on stomach and laying on back. This way you will know what the easiest postions to pee for you are, and then you will know postions that are hard for you to pee in so you can practice those positions.
Like I said it is normal to have a hard time relaxing enough to pee. Mainly because all of our lifes we have been trained to not pee unless we are sitting on the potty. So when you try to pee with a diaper on your brain is like "NOOOO STOP!!!" because it does not exactly understand that its okay to pee, even though you want to pee. When I first started wearing years ago, I could only pee standing in a diaper and it was still hard to relax enough to pee. After practicing though I have learned to be able to pee in almost any position and can pee at almost anytime too. Like they say, practice makes perfect!
Good luck!
If you would like some more advice, answer my qeustions and I will answer the other qeustions you had. I need more information to be able to able to give you proper advice.
Oh yeah! Please make an introduction post in the introduction forum, we would love to know more about you!
