i once knew a girl who by any objective standard was butt-ugly. she was short and pudgy and had a horrible underbite and a nose like a rotten potato: she looked like the wicked witch of the west. but she was the most sweet-tempered person imaginable: she was cheerful and giggly and friendly and modest and just a delight to be around. it was weeks before i even realized that she'd be considered ugly if you saw a photograph of her. she was such a beautiful person that it just didn't occur to me.here's a fun fact... and by god it really works.
I always thought it was ugly all throughout high school. I was quiet and shy and often strayed away from conversation just because i thought other people were judging me. Then after I saw this really unattractive guy that was friend's with everybody and I realized that ugliness was just an excuse for being shy and with a bit of practice, I overcame my shyness. You shouldn't do it just to get with a chika, that's uncool, but you should definitely work on not being shy around other people. You'll improve your own self image.
i firmly believe that at least 90% of what makes a person beautiful is their attitude and the way they act. if you're comfortable with yourself and friendly with others it may not win you any beauty contests but everyone around you will see you as beautiful. if you're a jealous or hateful person, you'll seem ugly to people no matter how much you might resemble brad pitt.