For me the release feels so nice. Having a sense of pressure in your gut released by the sudden or gradual expansion of your butt.
As for feel, it depends what you ate. Sometimes it can be hard and sticky, sometimes soup, others like a soft serve. Some feel so similar to wet padding it’s hard to tell, only way to differentiate is the fact it smells, and move around more in the diaper than normal wet padding.
In my opinion, I think everyone abdl should try it once or twice to make up there own mind. Do it right though, not like me. Eat enough fiber and bulk building foods, prepare a few days in advance. This can give one of the better ways of messing.
On what to do after messing, that’s up to you. My favorite is doing something mundane or enjoyable like reading a book, cooking, playing a game. The urge hits, I release, and go back to what I was doing for a bit before pausing to change.
Though it’s always difficult for me as if I try to go “normally” (not using suppository, enema, marshmallows, etc) As it always just sticks to my butt crack and does not fall into the diaper. Using other methods like marshmallows or enemas can get a mess into the diaper but it always shift to between the legs preventing a mess on my butt but making one buy my crotch.
So even after immediate issues like above I then have to clean up right away as I do live in a dorm with a roommate, and while he may be gone at the moment, the smell can linger. After a full shower, fabrese, bleaching shower, and clean up, I always wonder if it’s worth it. I can probably fix a lot of the clean up issues by avoiding things that create more of a mess (laxative like substances) and eat better food.
For me, the answer is yes. The choice is up to you, but you won’t know until you don’t try.