Your situation sounds like mine. I can only play when my wife is at work, which is only 3 days a week. When she retires next June, I don't know what I'm going to do. That said, I have a cloth diaper, pinned on of course, and Gary plastic pants over that. Bliss!A fluffy, dry Adult Cloth Diaper prefold. i hadn't expected any diaper opportunities until next week due to Mrs. Maxx's Christmas break, but she got called over to Junior's house to babysit for the day. So here I am, enjoying a few hours of diapered bliss. No, I don't expect to be dry for very long.