Well, my mom randomly asked me if I was still into diapers today :(

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So, it's been a good number of years since she first found out and randomly today she's like you're not into that diaper thing are you still. I'm like no, but I'm trying to think of why that would randomly come up though. I haven't had any of them in my room or around the house for a good many months, so I'm confused.
 

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well lieing not a good thing, But I don't know all the details from the last time you told/she found out. But if it went well last time, then why lie now??
 

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Honestly... if my mom were that up front about it... I think I'd have to say yes.
 

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My dad sortof knows why, but my mom thought I was a pedo last time so yea I said no. I'd rather just keep it a secret and if she goes snooping through my stuff I have some nice words to say to her -_-
 

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My dad sortof knows why, but my mom thought I was a pedo last time so yea I said no. I'd rather just keep it a secret and if she goes snooping through my stuff I have some nice words to say to her -_-

Ahhh well then I understand. Plus we here know your not hurting anyone. But she most likly wants to know the same.
 

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i wish my mom would ask me that. she found out a few years ago but i played it off and stop with the whole thing. recently its hit me hard (why i joined) and i want to order some online (abena or bambino) cause store ones cant handle a flood. but she's a stay at home mom and would definitely be curious about a package, cause i never order online. mostly due to the fact i don't have a credit card so that would be another reason i would want her to know. that and i don't like hiding my stash and wearing only when everyone else goes to sleep.
 

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I've thought about using a proxy, hiding my mail headers, etc, etc and sending a random link to this site in her email so she can relax and know I'm not hurting no one, but yea I'm not going to risk it. Some things are best kept private from parents.

Ordering online is easy for me at least. I've always got a package coming and it's usually computer parts so yea, one unmarked box isn't going to be noticed as something odd. Though I do have to put up with my 16 y/o brother going why the hell do you waste your money on those stupid computer parts. Whatever, he's computer stupid let em think that lols.
 

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I've thought about using a proxy, hiding my mail headers, etc, etc and sending a random link to this site in her email so she can relax and know I'm not hurting no one, but yea I'm not going to risk it. Some things are best kept private from parents.

I think if you wanted her to know this site wouldn't be a great site to use, I would send her to Understanding Infantilism instead. This is your group of friends, jsut as mush as a support group.
 

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I've read that site, I don't feel like I fall in that area though. These aren't sexual for me or anything like that. I don't even know why I'm here really. I just like em, security really.
 

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wouldn't that be change in role? but i'm like that too, i just like them. i'm probably in the center of that chart, maybe leaning to top right. i don't know its all still kind of new to me.
 

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It's not new to me, I've had these desires since I was what, like 9 lols.

Oh, well, getting off topic lol.
 

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sorry. why don't you just give the site to her yourself? if she changes her mind then grats, if not then it wouldn't be any worse then her first reaction, but at lest she'll have information on it.
 
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Nothing really else to contribute. But god damn...
 

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Nothing really else to contribute. But god damn...

I know rite? At least it means that we have concern for our members =D.

Really I'd just drop it. I've been actually caught on a select few occasions and every time I just dropped it, and it went away.
 

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It would be easiest on you if you drop it and just let it die. By her saying, "You're still not....etc." is a strong indication that she does not want it to be a part of your life. Sometimes, lying preserves other people's sanity.
 

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It just seems equally awkward and scary when that happens. Hey at least it won't be a problem for some more couple of years.
 
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That was quite a question to land on you suddenly like that! I can see why you said no. I think I would have too, or at least said 'not so much' or 'not really'. Then, when it's too late to change your answer, you're left thinking about whether you said the right thing.

It might be best to drop it as mm3 suggests, if you see no benefit in trying to get your Mum to understand. Or it may be worth continuing to help her understand. Only you know the situation well enough to decide that, but I'd thought I'd offer a few suggestions that you can use or ignore as you think best...

I wondered if you could bring the subject up with your Mum by asking her what made her remember when you 'used to' have that thing with diapers, and then talk about it all in the past tense. Maybe, when you were younger, your Mum was frightened about who or what you might become, especially as she doesn't seem to understand DL or recreational diaper wearing. Would she ease up a bit if she was speaking about the past?

But that doesn't solve the problem of her knowing now. I dislike deception, but I also believe in not telling people what they don't need to know.

So, I told my Mum that I like to wear diapers at night sometimes. This is true. I also like to wear in the day sometimes but she didn't need to know that and I think it was enough for her to get her head around that first bit of info.

You are not unusual (I think) for getting a sense of security or emotional energy from wearing, rather than it being a sexual thing. For me it's pretty much 95% non-sexual with a small amount of cross-over. So I told my Mum it helps me cope with stress and I don't get off on it.

I also tend to emphasise that my interest is in my own childhood and the special time it was. I hope that goes some way to show it is not an interest in children, but with the child I once was. Also, if your childhood wasn't awesome, be careful how you say things because, at least in my experience, parents tend to blame themselves for anything about their kids they don't like. Parents may be less amenable if they are also battling feelings of guilt, wondering what they did to cause something.

Anyway, that's what I can offer from my own experience. Your situation will be entirely different of course so do as you know best. Let us know, in time, how things turn out.
 

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I dont know what to tell ya bro. other than whats been said already..
good luck and I hope all goes well.
 
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