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rawr1

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How many people wear in public? Is it acceptable to wear diapers in public (under normal clothing) when not actually incontinent? How about wetting in public? Are there some situations were it would be OK and others not? I'm curious about what you guys think and I'm also considering doing it (more often anyways) also, anyone who goes to (or went to in the past I guess) ever wear to class?
 

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What's going on under your trousers is your business. As long as you're not making a spectacle of yourself, I don't see how anyone with any sense could possibly object.
 

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I would have to agree with the above poster. What you do under your clothes is your business. No one should say anything about it as long as you are discreet about it.
 

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What's going on under your trousers is your business. As long as you're not making a spectacle of yourself, I don't see how anyone with any sense could possibly object.

Valid point. I just see it as like a private interest for me so idk if it would be weird, even if noone knows.
 

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Valid point. I just see it as like a private interest for me so idk if it would be weird, even if noone knows.

No one outside of a fap fiction story is going to hold a gun to your head and make you wear in public when you don't want to, so you're safe. It's a pretty private thing for me as well. My underwear is also a pretty private thing. There's not a conflict, at least for me, which is one of the things that's neat about diapers: you can have this very personal experience that is different from the public presentation.
 

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I've worn when nipping out to the shops (in a clean one). And a few times I've put on a diaper before travelling home. I've never stayed out for more than an hour or two after putting one on, so I don't think anyone could object (or even know about it -- I'm paranoid about being noticed!).

If no one can tell, and what you're doing doesn't affect anyone else, I don't see anything wrong with it.
 

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I myself I don't care how many people wear in public no matter whether they need them or not. I wear mine 24/7 and when I'm out and about I don't go looking for people who
might be wearing. If you wear in public and don't draw attention to your self you should be okay. Same way most people won't know anyway if you got a diaper on unless you flaunt
it by wearing tight clothing. Wearing normal clothing and carrying a backpack anymore is pretty much common place.
 
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I think some people are so nervous about wearing in public, they don't realize that most people wouldn't notice and if they did, they probably wouldn't care. In the final analysis, it's nobody's business.
 
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I've spent entire days out diapered for the fun of it. When recently going to an ABDL munch, and going to stores before hand and to bars afterwards, I wore a molicare under a short skirt with other punk gear. My roommate was with me and thought I was nuts but it's not like anyone could see.

Down side is, with the skirt and the humidity that day, the molicare chafed up my left thigh really, really, REALLY bad. It was like a 15cm long bruise going on the inside of my thigh. :(
 

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I think some people are so nervous about wearing in public, they don't realize that most people wouldn't notice and if they did, they probably wouldn't care. In the final analysis, it's nobody's business.

You're right, nobody would imagine that you are wearing a diaper.
 

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I have often worn my diapers in public, they are cotton pull ups, and I wear thick plastic panty. I don't really care what other people think, I like it, I feel comfortable, and if I was hit by a car, the nursing staff would be very appreciative
 

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ok, once or twice my wife has come home while I am wearing a doubled night weight cloth diaper. That's pretty noticeable, and hard to conceal with clothes, and she still doesn't notice right away. So the average person won't either. A thinner diaper like the Depenoco, or a disposable, no one is going to notice. Now, what you can get away with as far a odor is concerned, I'm not as sure how long it takes to smell funny after you wet yourself. But even if someone does notice, they are certainly not going to mention it. Now, if a 3 year old notices, that may be a different story....
 

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I wear in public all the time and pee in them anywhere.
 

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I have urgency issues and when I'm out doing errands I will pad up and wet when I need to rather than stop everything and go look for a bathroom. Maybe I'm weird, but it's kind of fun wetting when you're talking to a sales clerk as in "You don't know what I'm doing!"
 
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This is a topic that comes up regularly. The general consensus seems to be that there is nothing wrong with wearing, and to some extent using, diapers under normal clothing in public as long as you respect the people around you.
 

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People do a lot worse things in public, wearing underwear that's a little padded with a waterproof coating can hardly be a big problem as long as you're discreet. Obviously it's not on to offend others.
 

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Being IC this is a moot point. I have to ware all the time. And yes I have no control over my wetting. I try to be discreet but I stopped worrying about it a long time ago.
If you want to ware out in public go for it. In the 40 year I have been IC there have been few time that I have been aware of that anyone has said anything to my face or behind my back.
 

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I wear to work and out & about. Don't care if someone notices, I mean, they'd have to be staring at me pretty closely to notice.
 

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I have urgency issues and when I'm out doing errands I will pad up and wet when I need to rather than stop everything and go look for a bathroom. Maybe I'm weird, but it's kind of fun wetting when you're talking to a sales clerk as in "You don't know what I'm doing!"

As a member of the Pants wetting Club, in good standing, A wet diaper is better than wet pants any day.

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If you look at people and try to guess how is wearing a diaper, you will be wrong 9 out of 10 times.
 

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If you're nervous about wearing in public, do the following three things:

1. Wear underwear overtop of your diapers
2. Wear jeans
3. Wear a belt

No one will guess your secret.
 
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