Wearing diapers in public

Status
Not open for further replies.

betagame

Est. Contributor
Messages
650
Role
Diaper Lover
have you ever wore diapers on public

if you have, post your experience here

BTW, this was from the old forum
 

Tigger

Banned
Messages
432
Role
Adult Baby, Diaper Lover
once, and it was only a few blocks away from my house that I had needed to go though...
 

Yawgmoth

Est. Contributor
Messages
159
Role
Private
Well, I suppose it wouldn't hurt to post my guide to wearing in public.

Yawgmoth's Guide to Wearing in Public

Recommended Brands
(In order from easiest to conceal to least)
  • Goodnites or any other pull-up brand.
  • Walgreens (cloth covered)
  • Attends/Depends

Analysis of Recommended Brands
  1. Goodnites or other pull-up brands are extremely thin and virtually disappear beneath any kind of pants. I've spoken with girls from the community who have worn hip hugging, low rise, jeans out with goodnites on. The only draw back is the fact that they hold very little in terms of wettings, you can get in a wetting but don't count on a second.
  • Walgreens new cloth covered adult diaper is one of the finest diapers for the public-wearing AB/TB/DL, in my opinion. The first thing to note is their cost; about $8.00 +tax for 20 diapers. Also, with a cloth cover, there's absolutely no crinkle whatsoever. They're slightly thicker than goodnites, but not by much, so they vanish beneath any type of pants just so long as your ass-crack isn't showing and they're not skin tight. As for wettings, from my personal experience I can get 3 wettings in a Walgreens brand, and it'll even hold a 4th just so long that you don't sit down. I highly suggest Walgreens brand.

  • Attends and Depends are for the more daring AB/TB/DL. I've personally worn these out several times, and there's a series of special precautions you'll have to take in order to safely wear these out in public (see next section). Basically, they're thin enough to wear out in public under slightly baggy clothing, and the the crinkle can be diminished to a whisper if you put a pair of tight underwear on over them (a tight pair of boxers does wonders). They hold roughly 2 wettings, 3 if you don't sit down. I suggest these if you really want a "rush" with minimal risk and the babyish feeling of a plastic diaper.

Special Clothing Precautions
  • This is a no-brainer, but I'll list it anyway. Make sure you put your diaper on very snug. As another member said in a post, make it tight enough that it leaves those unattractive red marks on your legs. This, as your can guess, prevents leaks which would be disastrous in public.
  • After putting the diaper on, put on a pair of underwear over it. The more coverage of the underwear, the more the crinkle sound will be suppressed. I find that a pair of tight boxers does wonders in concealing any crinkle noise. This, of course, means that you ladies should avoid the thong underwear for "crinkle concealment".
  • Another purpose of underwear is to act as a "decoy" just in case you're bending over (or something of the sort) and your shirt rides up revealing whats beneath your pants. Once the underwear are up over the diaper, make sure the top of the diaper is tucked down beneath the waistband of the underwear. Personally, I take it a step further and use a bit of masking tape to keep the diaper-top folded down in. This way, if your underwear is spotted it'll be your real underwear, not your special underwear.
  • The baggier the pants, the more I suggest wearing them. Really big cargo pants are a huge asset for this kind of public adventure. Of course, you can always adjust the tightness of the pants in accordance to how daring you're feeling. However, keep in mind that pants too tight will also restrict the absorbency ability of the diaper beneath them; this could cause your diaper to leak easier.
  • Wear a belt. I don't care if you don't like belts, or you never wear them, make an exception when you're wearing a diaper. Also, pull the belt one or two notches tighter than you normally would. In doing so, make sure your underwear is beneath where the belt is applying pressure to. This further prevents your underwear, or your diaper, riding up.
  • Wear a long shirt. This, once again, is a common advice tip with obvious purpose. It's just another anti-detection precaution. Just do it.

Common Sense Tips
  • Don't go #2 in your diapers while in public. It's a dumb move regardless of how you look at it. If you do this, I will personally hunt you down and end your existence with a rusty spatula.
  • Whatever diaper you plan wearing out, know the holding ability of it for you. I've provided my wetting capacity numbers on the diaper analysis above, but the amount that you urinate may be more or less. Test a few diapers out before you go out so you know the amount it can hold before a leak.
  • Always wet one less time than your diaper can hold. If you know your diaper can hold three wettings, only go twice in it. Better safe than sorry.
  • Guys, I know you've heard this before, but make sure you're pointed in the right direction. Some of us more "well endowed" men can get pointed in all kinds of directions as we walk around. This is another reason to make the diaper extra snug, it keeps everything in place.
  • Don't flood your diaper. It's a stupid thing to do, and you'd be stupid to do it.
  • Don't draw attention to yourself. In other words, it's not too smart to wear a diaper to work on a day where you have to stand up and give a speech to the board of directors.
  • Don't wear to an event where all the people close to you (friends, family, coworkers, schoolmates, etc...) are there. In other words, don't wear to places like family reunions, work, school, and so on.
  • Wear out to public places populated primarily with people that you don't know. Good places include the mall, wal-mart, amusement parks, and general places like that.


I'm sick of typing, I might go on with more tips tomorrow. I hope this helps...

EDIT: Would this go well in the Wiki?
 

Blake

Contributor
Messages
156
Role
Adult Baby
Ive been to disney world with ab friends and worn an xplus with a stuffer. Its really not that bad. If you dont make a big deal out of it others won't. We carried a bookbag with small things of powder a travel case of wipes and some diapers just in case we needed a change but we didnt have any issues with it.
 

Peachy

Banned
Messages
7,449
Role
Adult Baby, Diaper Lover, Carer
More precautions:
  • Take a small item in a crinkly plastic wrapper with you in your pocket (e.g. a package of Kleenex, a candy bar etc.). When someone approaches you and asks what the crinkling sound is, you can pull the plastic wrapped item out of your pocket and show it to them. No need to long-winded excuses for a crinkling sound.
  • Wearing two sets of underwear may be helpful - a pair of briefs right over the diaper to keep it in place, and the biggest/longest pair of boxers or boxer briefs you can find to conceal the "package".

More common sense:
  • Don't grab, tuck, check your diaper in public! People will wonder why you keep fumbling your crotch area and look closely...something you want to avoid!
  • Male members should discreetly check the position of their male parts every now and then to avoid surprises when your parts have been moved around while walking and suddenly point sideways.
  • Female members should note that the absorbency cannot be fully used when wearing in public only. Since you'll be primarily in a standing and maybe sitting position, all the pee will stay at the bottom of the diaper. So do not overestimate the capacity!

Peachy
 

ayanna

Est. Contributor
Messages
1,403
Role
Adult Baby, Babyfur
have you ever wore diapers on public

if you have, post your experience here
I've worn numerous times in public...on buses, trains, walking, in shops, libraries, restaurants, friends homes, movie theatres, etc etc etc The list goes on and on and on.

What experience? I had a diaper on...I went places...I came home and changed. WHOOP-DE-DOO!

No one notices (and if anyone tells a tale of how they wore a diaper and EVERYONE noticed the BS FLAG has been raised to the top of the pole).

Diapers do not "crinkle" as loudly as you THINK they do (you hear it 'cause you're wearing it), everyday sounds mask the crinkle....even in a quiet library!

I could go on and on, but I'm tired and I have a headache.
 

Darkfinn

Banned
Messages
3,681
Role
Diaper Lover, Incontinent,
I wear in public all the time. To work, hanging out with friends, wherever. I've never had a problem with it... never had it mentioned to me by anyone... and I wear the thick ones too Abris, Secure X-plus, Bambino.

My gf also wears on a regular basis to school and work. Though she prefers pull-ups or the Walgreens diapers.

Honestly it's not as big a deal as you think it would be. The thought of you wearing a diaper is probably the furthest thing from people's minds... and even if they do see something... it's an embarassing topic to try and broach with someone.
 

babyemo

Est. Contributor
Messages
772
Role
Adult Baby, Diaper Lover,
hah, public, i am an exobitionist (totally not how you spell that ) totally, i wear almost everywhere, especially at school and sometimes at work (delivery) sometimes i get bored and like to get my kicks, ill go to the rest stops on the freeway and walk out of the bathroom/go back to my car with nothing but a fresh diaper and shirt (funny story actually, comes down to not wanting to put soaked pants back on after changing) as i said, i like the "danger" of being found out
 
Messages
3,464
Role
Private
I've worn DryNites, Depends, Molicare's and Bambinos(!) out before.

DryNites and Depends aren't too bad. Easily concealed and no noise.

Molicare's can make a slight bulge, but I got away with it pretty easily.

Bambino's are just insane to go out in. I wouldn't recommend it at all!
 

Ranger

Est. Contributor
Messages
336
Role
Diaper Lover, Diaperfur
I've worn Depends out in public many times and have had very few problems with them. I've had the occasional small leak, but that was entirely my fault and since it was winter, if anyone asked, I could just say that I sat in a small puddle of melted snow.
 

Moo

ADISC Admin
Staff
Messages
5,125
Role
Private
It would be really good to copy the advice here onto the wiki :)
 

HuskyRye

Est. Contributor
Messages
177
Role
Adult Baby, Diaper Lover, Babyfur, Diaperfur, Sissy
I've worn out in public many times, strictly Bambino and Abena X-Plus. Extremely thick diapers DO go un-noticed. lol.
 

Darkfinn

Banned
Messages
3,681
Role
Diaper Lover, Incontinent,
what with todays baggy clothing trends... you can get away with almost anything...
 

babyemo

Est. Contributor
Messages
772
Role
Adult Baby, Diaper Lover,
exactly, i wore bambinos to school today, they are krinkly but not enough to hear, and they arent even as thick as abenas, so there is no problem there either, i wear coveralls though just in case :p
 

Takashi

Always willing to give help to those who seek it.
Est. Contributor
Messages
2,969
Role
Carer
I guess you could say this was kinda stupid or really took guts but here goes.

Ok last August I was down to only 1 Depends pull up so I put it on and relised that I needed to "go" so I messed the pull up and walked up to publix and got a new pack of diapers and as far as I know no one new I was wearing it or that I had messed.
 

quattrus

Est. Contributor
Messages
1,126
Role
Diaper Lover, Diaperfur, Carer
Ok last August I was down to only 1 Depends pull up so I put it on and relised that I needed to "go" so I messed the pull up and walked up to publix and got a new pack of diapers and as far as I know no one new I was wearing it or that I had messed.
Well, if it was August - and in your area it gets quite hot during summer I guess - I doubt no one noticed the smell coming from a messy pull-up. Probably you just gave them the idea of who you were buying diapers for... :tongueout:

As for wearing diapers in public, I regularly do that and personally I prefer having a thick abri-form on and concealing it under some baggy pants rather than wearing a thin one and risking the embarassment of leaks. I often use plastic pants over diapers, hence the crinkle is not a problem even in quiet environments, and no one has ever noticed... yet :D
 

Hexaod

Est. Contributor
Messages
60
Role
Private
Yes.
All the time? No.
I switch from boxer to diaper frequently. I never wear them both because of this awkward feeling I get (BTW, don't ask me to describe please)
 

baby jester

Est. Contributor
Messages
312
Role
Adult Baby
i have worn them in public a lot of times so here is my worst experience.

so i just bought a pack of depends and i was so anxious to try them out. me and my friend had to go to my moms work so i changed the diaper and got dressed. i remembered that my mom had a new pair of pants in her room so i ran and put them on over my diaper. now these depends didnt make much noise so i didnt worry much about that. so my friend and i got in my sisters car and she dropped us off at my moms office where my mom was going to take my friend home. we walk into to her office after taking the elevator to the top floor and she asked where i got the pants i told her that i got them in her room and she wanted me to lift up my shirt and show her how they fit. at this point i was trying to get a way out of doing so i refused and she got mad. now i finally decided i would go take it off in the bathroom but when i went in there, there was some one there so i went into the stall and i pulled the diaper down far enough so my boxers where covering them. now i walked back and my mom asked my friend what was up, luckily he said that he didnt know. now everything after that went well and i got home and got changed right out of it.
this was the scaries moment i have had so far with my TB life. so dont get yourself in that position.
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Top