If I'm wearing a diaper it's going to be used. Simple as that. I actually really don't like when people just wear diapers and don't use them. I feel like it's a massive waste of such an expensive product.
Often times, I will wear my diapers, but not really wet them or anything until the end of the day in order to prolong their use. Besides, I really enjoy just wearing them even while dry. Does anyone else do this?
When my anxiety was really bad, I felt like I needed them to relax and be able to sleep. So, if I was away from home I'd wear the fake-cloth-backed disposables and not use them.
It helped me sleep, without "inconveniencing" others or risking detection.