Was going to tell girlfriend, but...

[dillan221]

Well, here's my story:

I've been going out with my gf for 1 year and two months. I have been wearing nappies for 1 year four months, however I have only recently started getting adult ones. Anyway, I was ready to tell my girlfriend the other day when I was with her (if it helps, we are both 15). Anyways, I bottled it, then we went to her place

**Flashback** Her mum had an accident a few years ago and she has walked funny ever since, and for some reason I thought that she wore nappies (idk why) but we were in hers the other day and I saw a large box of lille supreme, empty, waiting to go in the bin. I saw the box and read on the side, and my gf saw me reading and said 'lets go into the living room I want to watch tv', even though we were getting drinks in the kitchen at the time. We later went and got drinks and the box was gone then. So this has stopped me telling her, as if her mum has to wear these, she may be offended. ON THE OTHER HAND, they may have been hers that she is hiding from me, i don't know.

Guys, what would you do in a situation like this?

Thanks, Dill

 

[diaperedteenager]

hmm...tricky. collect some more recon. wait a few weeks and if they keep apperaing, then pop the question.

1). does it look like her mom wears them?
2). Any signs of her wearing them? (diapers in the trash can, or room smelling of diaper/pee)

And if it seems like they are for her, then pop the question and say u wear too, or something like that.

PS: Lille Supreme...are those thick?

 

[Left]

What makes you want to tell in the first place?

Dont get me wrong its tough to hide and all that jazz but i myself have told too many pepole... in my opinoun that i thought i trusted and turned out to not be trustworthy.

if theres a good reason i would suggest going with the diaperd teenager guy
otherwise its not really worth it

 

[Angusmac]

I wouldn't tell her at this point. However, if you can gather more info and find out who the diapers belong to then here are your options:

1. If the diapers belong to her mother DO NOT TELL HER.
2. If the diapers belong to your GF, see if you can find out why...then DO NOT TELL HER.

 

[dillan221]

What makes you want to tell in the first place?

Dont get me wrong its tough to hide and all that jazz but i myself have told too many pepole... in my opinoun that i thought i trusted and turned out to not be trustworthy.

if theres a good reason i would suggest going with the diaperd teenager guy
otherwise its not really worth it

Well just because I want to share this with someone, and my gf is really understanding with everything, and she says she will love me no matter what (she actually means it after somne of things we have been through)

Im finding it harder and harder to hide it from her, for example history on computer and storing nappies under bed, and obviously the smell of my room and me, I would like the truth to be known about that.

 

[Angusmac]

Well just because I want to share this with someone, and my gf is really understanding with everything, and she says she will love me no matter what (she actually means it after somne of things we have been through)

Im finding it harder and harder to hide it from her, for example history on computer and storing nappies under bed, and obviously the smell of my room and me, I would like the truth to be known about that.

Well if that's how you feel about it...Find out who the diapers belong to first, and then consider it very carefully before you make up your mind.

-Gus

 

[dillan221]

Im going to drop this subtle hint now, as she is in car and needs toilet. I am going to say, wouldn't it be great if we dind't need to go.

Is this suitable?

Edit: said it she just said yeh n then hehe.

 

[miles]

Personally, I'd not tell anyone, especially in a situation like this where the mother is probably wearing diapers. (Honestly, the chances of them belonging to perfectly healthy teenager and not the mother who was in a severe accident are EXTREMELY slim)

Also if you really want to, don't tell her all at once. Give her a lot of time, and a lot of subtle hints.

 

[dillan221]

Personally, I'd not tell anyone, especially in a situation like this where the mother is probably wearing diapers. (Honestly, the chances of them belonging to perfectly healthy teenager and not the mother who was in a severe accident are EXTREMELY slim)

Also if you really want to, don't tell her all at once. Give her a lot of time, and a lot of subtle hints.

Just tried the first subtle hint there, seemed to go ok with it being laughed off. Thanks for advice

 

[miles]

No problem, but just remember, give her A LOT of time.

I'm not a relationship wiz or anything, but it's just common sense not to drop something taboo like diapers on someone at once.

 

[dogboy]

Well just because I want to share this with someone, and my gf is really understanding with everything, and she says she will love me no matter what (she actually means it after somne of things we have been through)

Im finding it harder and harder to hide it from her, for example history on computer and storing nappies under bed, and obviously the smell of my room and me, I would like the truth to be known about that.

I wouldn't tell her unless you definitely know that she wears them and for enjoyment, not because she has to. Secondly, because your room smells is not only a bad excuse for telling, but you need to clean the used diapers out and get rid of the smell. I'm assuming your parents don't know, but even if they do, living with used diaper smells is not a good idea. Then thirdly, there's no excuse for leaving a history trail on your computer. You need to protect yourself, because discovery usually leads to a bad end, and it can be avoided.

 

[Dakota13]

I would not tell her, be patient and be observant. Also if you drop small hints to her guage her reaction, because it is possible she may be a dl/tb aswell thus causing her to react differently. Leaving your room smelling of used diapers is a bad idea and your parents may catch on.

 

[dillan221]

TBH, i dont think my room does smell, I think it is just me being paranoid. I've been reading a few forum messages (other forums) and am now getting to the point where I don't want to hide anything from my gf, even something as 'bizarre' as this, if you know what I mean.

 

[tdlrfootedpjs]

I would definately approach this situation with caution, being only 15 you are still in high school and while you really want to trust your girlfriend at this point, I know that alot of things change in high school and the person you are in love with now may not be the same person a year or 2 down the road. Just think about it from that perspective also.

 

[Serendiapity]

Between the time when you saw the diaper box and the time you went back to the same place and saw it missing, did you let her out of your sight?

 

[g6s]

I've been reading a few forum messages (other forums) and am now getting to the point where I don't want to hide anything from my gf, even something as 'bizarre' as this, if you know what I mean.

Bad idea. Read through these forums and watch the horror stories of failed attempts to tell people. Learn from our mistakes. I would generally accept this sites posts more than others anyways. Just don't tell someone when you're that young. It wont go well. It never does, I promise.

 

[wetatnight]

as many of the of the other poster said.
try to find out who the diapers belong to before you tell her.
maybe you could drop a subtle hint that you waer them too.

 

[Dark Bringer]

but we were in hers the other day and I saw a large box of lille supreme, empty, waiting to go in the bin. I saw the box and read on the side, and my gf saw me reading and said 'lets go into the living room I want to watch tv', even though we were getting drinks in the kitchen at the time. We later went and got drinks and the box was gone then.

"We were in hers." You mean you were in your girlfriends room with her when you saw a box of Lille Supreme? What is Lille Supreme anyways, sounds like a type of Huggies.
Anyways, you could tell her she doesn't have to worry about the time you happened to see that box. Because if she or someone else in her family wears them for any reason, you won't think any less of them. And mention it's not something to be embaressed about.
I know a lot of people are saying not to mention it but I don't see how it could hurt to simply tell her she needn't worry about what you might have seen.

 

[Gingy]

I told mine. (weren't going out at the time) It was good. I have an old thread about it if you feel compelled to take a peek. She knows a lot about this stuff now, and still loves me. She is on the forums... (lost-lotus)

I'm not saying "tell her" or "don't tell her" because nobody knows your relationship like you do.

 

[dillan221]

I told mine. (weren't going out at the time) It was good. I have an old thread about it if you feel compelled to take a peek. She knows a lot about this stuff now, and still loves me. She is on the forums... (lost-lotus)

I'm not saying "tell her" or "don't tell her" because nobody knows your relationship like you do.

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"We were in hers." You mean you were in your girlfriends room with her when you saw a box of Lille Supreme? What is Lille Supreme anyways, sounds like a type of Huggies.
Anyways, you could tell her she doesn't have to worry about the time you happened to see that box. Because if she or someone else in her family wears them for any reason, you won't think any less of them. And mention it's not something to be embaressed about.
I know a lot of people are saying not to mention it but I don't see how it could hurt to simply tell her she needn't worry about what you might have seen.

They were lille supreme lights, got a link HERE

Between the time when you saw the diaper box and the time you went back to the same place and saw it missing, did you let her out of your sight?

Nope we went in the living room and stayed there, the box was in the kitchen (we were getting drinks at the time)