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baby_mike

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How many true friends do you have. I've been thinking about this alot lately.
I finaly figured it out. I have only 1 true friend.

That true friend is:
Someone I could trust with my life with
Always has a open ear
doesn't judge me for what i do
doesn't judge me fr what i want
ALWAY there for me NO matter what.
 
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Definitively? One. We grew up together, and have been through a lot: summer camp, concerts, trips to Six Flags, etc. He is also my troop's SPL.

The Army of Two, you could say.
 

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By your definitino. None. Everyone judges even if they do tolerate or accept.

I have 3 true friends if I accept that everyone judges but true friends tolerate or accept.

1) My mate Scott who was my worst enemy in school.
2) My mate David who recently was in a horrible car crash (lost an eye, lots of broken bones and unable to move for a few months). I have recently been able to prove to him that I am a real friend.
3) Ryan. My climbing partner is someone I trust with my life so often and that I don't even think about it any more. Every time I fall I don't have the slightest fear because I have no doubt that he'll catch me.
 

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I have 8

Those would be my closest friends and I'd take a bullet for them.
 
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Five true friends...and I'm grateful to have them, because they have pulled me out of things that were way wrong and they have sworn me (some of them even crying) that they will be always there...and so I will =).
 

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I'd say 8, their good people. :)
 

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I have 3 people like that. One of them I've known since I was 5 and the other since I was 10. I met the last one when I was in high school. They're just the kind of people I can talk to about anything and who are always there if I need them.

Then there's a lot of people who could be true friends. The situations that puts those friendships to the test just hasn't presented themselves yet.
 

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I have 5. However - 3 of them don't know about my ABDL stuff... but I don't think my friends knowing about my sex life is a factor in our friendship, so it doesn't matter.
 
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I couldn't give you a number, because all of my friends are so vastly different.

I have one who I hang out with a lot (way too much if you ask me) and we have a lot of fun together. He does know about me being here because he knew I did something on the internet I wasn't telling him. So he tried to find me and succeded. He made an account and is still supprisingly active, if anyone knows Blarg, thats him.

I have another friend who I really like, I would take a bullet for him and he would take one for me, but unfortunetly we don't see eachother often, and he's kind of full of himself. He hangs out with a different group of friends than me, and will pritty much ignore me when he's with them, but I don't care. He's just trying to maintane his image (whatever that may be).

I have one more that is very very difficult to be friends with. He is gay, and madly in love with me. He writes me letters, calls me on the phone, and you can even see the comfort in his eyes when he's around me. He wants me to love him, he has said so repeatedly in his letters, but he knows I never will, which he has also said in his letters. I don't hang out with him that much (because that would pritty much be dating) but I do enjoy being around him. He is my one friend that really provokes the kind thought that I use to only get when trying to find out who I was. He not only makes me redefine things about me, but he allows me to try to decipher his thoughts and fealings the same way I tried to decipher my own. He gives me enough information on how he feals in his letters for me to understant enough to try, and I really enjoy it. Though he's very strange, I'd still consider him a good friend.

Lastly, I have a freshman stalker whom I don't like that much, but she adors me. She followes me around everywhere, goes to classes late so she can be with me longer, and has memorised my locker combonation just by hanging over my shoulder so much. She'd take multiple bullets for me, but I'm not sure I'd do the same for her. I'm just there to be a good friend, and that is all she askes for.

The hardest thing is that all of these people (except the 2nd person, don't really see him at school) really don't like eachother and cling to me at the same time. It's really hard having to listen to 3 different people talk and try to reply to each conversation, so most of what I say is just yes, no, or that's nice.
 

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[font="Calibri,Arial"]I would guess 2. I would have said 5 if you asked me in November, December but this year, I've found myself feeling distant from the 3 people I normally hang out with. I only found out on Monday that one of them was told "You can bring as many of your friends along as you want for the holiday if they pay for themselves" and he invited the other 2 and not me. This was organised before Christmas. And the person I would have considered my best friend in school, the two of us have been having nothing but arguments lately.

Of the 2 who I would consider true friends, one of them I went to primary school with and although I've moved a good bit away, we still keep in touch,

The other one grew up with me where I lived from when I was about 7 until I was about 13 (and he goes to the same school I do now). He's a year younger than me and he was held back a year when I was younger so I don't see much of him in school (as he's 2 years behind me in school) but we still talk a lot and if I were to tell anyone about my *bism, he'd be the person I'd tell.[/font]
 

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I'd say I have 3 true friends, although I'm not sure I could talk to them about ANYTHING, but most things I can. They're friends that have been there for me when I needed them, they're the kind that will wake up at 2 in the morning if you've had car trouble, and they're the kind that drive you to the ER because you somehow managed to slice most of your finger off working on your car. I'd do anything for them, and I'm sure they'd return the favor.
 

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One true friend ... But also my Theatre Family . Which includes about 25 people :]
 
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How many true friends do you have. I've been thinking about this alot lately.
I finaly figured it out. I have only 1 true friend.

That true friend is:
Someone I could trust with my life with
Always has a open ear
doesn't judge me for what i do
doesn't judge me fr what i want
ALWAY there for me NO matter what.

3.

I have a handful of friends, and several more acquaintances.

It's not that I'm not personable; I get on fine with many people. I have, rather, always drawn rather tight lines and stuck by them. True friendship, I think, requires intimacy. And the ability to be honest to the point of insult.

I would go to the ends of the earth for my friends; drop everything in my life and aid them if they needed. They would do the same for me.
 

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Three good friends, one who meets that criteria. (But he doesn't know about my dark side.)
 

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As older adults, I think we have acquaintences, rather than close friends. We just don't let our guard down. Of course I have my wife who is my true friend. But when I was a kid, I always had one person who was my true friend. In high school, it was my high school linebacker friend from the football team. He and I could tell most secrets, and became very close. In college it was my room mate. But when I left college, it was no one until I married. That changes everything.
 

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I have 5. However - 3 of them don't know about my ABDL stuff... but I don't think my friends knowing about my sex life is a factor in our friendship, so it doesn't matter.


My friend doesnt know about my baby side either. Sometimes I wonder what she would think if I told her. I am pretty sure she would be okay with it but I am still nervous about telling her.
 

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My friend doesnt know about my baby side either. Sometimes I wonder what she would think if I told her. I am pretty sure she would be okay with it but I am still nervous about telling her.

You... don't count your girlfriend as a true friend?
 
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