Top Ten List - thinking about wearing diapers...

greatlake5

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Top Ten List - thinking about wearing diapers...
#10 - shameful
#9 - upsetting
#8 - humiliating
#7 - embarrassing
#6 - humbling
#5 -secure
#4 - warm / comfy
#3 - safe
#2 - relieving
And the #1 about thinking about wearing diapers...
vulnerabler
 
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slimjiminy

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I'm not quite sure about this list- is it least worrisome to most, or the other way round?
greatlake5 said:
Top Ten List - thinking about wearing diapers...
#10 - shameful
Definitely feels that way in the audience of non-IC folks.
greatlake5 said:
#9 - upsetting
I don't feel "upset" about it really, though I was at the start.
greatlake5 said:
#8 - humiliating
#7 - embarrassing
#6 - humbling
Like #10, diapers are humiliating, embarrassing and humbling in the audience of non-IC folks.
greatlake5 said:
#5 -secure
#4 - warm / comfy
#3 - safe
#2 - relieving
And the #1 about thinking about wearing diapers...
vulnerable
Diapers certainly provide reassurance and comfort to IC folk. Otherwise, we'd go out into the public terrified that we're about to embarrass ourselves with a visible/smelly accident.

For the more severely incontinent, just managing around the home is a problem. It's one thing for the house cat to pee on the couch, but quite another for one of the cat caregivers to do so!
 
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greatlake5

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slimjiminy said:
Definitely feels that way in the audience of non-IC folks.
i don't create this list for non-IC people. Just like any other posts I make. I acknowledge that there are abdl members who like to read these posts. Like I said, it's a free forum. But everything I post here on the IC forum is directed to IC members.
slimjiminy said:
.Diapers certainly provide reassurance and comfort to IC folk. Otherwise, we'd go out into the public terrified that we're about to embarrass ourselves with a visible/smelly accident.
"Terrified" didn't make the list. I've been IC since the beginning. I think I'm OK when I go out even though I've had some BM accidents before. I'm sure there are some newly IC people that fear some of the list (me too). The older I get I know there's a learning curve. Items on #5 to #1 make's it better for me. My new partner told me that being vulnerable makes me lovable. I'm cool with that.
 

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I can associate with all those feelings but above all the implications of not wearing protection - in my case adult nappies - does not bear thinking about. They allow me to lead a normal and full life.
 

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For girl its this order !!!
#3 - safe
#5 -secure
#4 - warm / comfy
#6 - humbling
 
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greatlake5

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Don't forget that it's vulnerable. If you're lucky, friends, families and partners will help with us. I'm good with both of these. Being IC is not a fun thing.
Humbling? Sure. Actually all of my lists are right. But being vulnerable, with having a really good partner, you have to except their help. I'm still working on that. But she does love me.Despite IC.
 
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