Tips on making more abdl friends online

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So I’m not a very social person irl so I prefer to make friends online anybody have any good tips
 
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Just start talking to people you find interesting on this site, most of us are very friendly and would be happy to talk to you about anything.
 
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You can also follow people here on ADISC if you like them. That way you can know when they're online from the site's homepage when you log in.
 
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I can only speak for here on ADISC, but the hardest part is getting started, and once you do it should get a lot easier! I think the easiest way on here is to reply to other peoples threads or profile posts. It’s an easy way to show people who you are and what your opinions are. I think naturally if you’re doing that, you’ll find there are people who react or reply to your messages more often than others, and that could be a good sign to reach out through PM.
Most importantly, if you’re trying to make a genuine friendship, I think it’s important to actually get to know who’s on the other side of the screen rather than only asking ABDL related questions. As both the asker and the receiver, it gets old being asked/asking about diapers over and over. I’d ask about interests or hobbies or something or the like. As long as you’re not disrespectful (calling names, saying inappropriate stuff, spamming people with messages etc), you’ll find it’s pretty easy to build lil friendships on here!
 
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Make an insta account with diaper type name.
Join FetLife.
 
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Diapercutie said:
Make an insta account with diaper type name.
Join FetLife.
This!
 

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robDL24 said:
So I’m not a very social person irl so I prefer to make friends online anybody have any good tips
im happy to make friend as i also find it hard xxx
 

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I can't speak intelligently about Instagram except to say that it's not my own cup of tea. As for FetLife: I'd certainly recommend creating an account and familiarizing oneself with the place. 95% of FetLife is amateur porn, plain and simple. I joined a few local groups and started following a few local ABDLs, as I was interested in knowing about munches and events in the area. I ended up unfollowing almost everybody though, because whenever I logged in my feed would be a wall of dick pics and one-handed comments. And despite being male, straight, in a committed relationship, and putting all of that on my profile, I've been hit on by other guys, asked to come over and change people's diapers, etc.

So as I see it, it's a bit unfortunate that FetLife is the place to look for munches and other meetup opportunities in your area. But it is. I still log in regularly to check the groups, but that's about it.

I have a couple of close ABDL friends with whom I've exchanged messages almost daily for years. Both are people I met here on ADISC. There are many more ADISCers I think of as friends, and I've even met some of them IRL. I very much favor a long game when it comes to making friends, and I find a forum like this to be a great venue for that. Versus a stream of there-and-gone one-liners, the contributions you make here "stick," and you can therefore paint a much clearer picture of yourself over time, in addition to more clearly perceiving your forum-mates. You do have to invest yourself, though. There's nothing objectively wrong with coming here and posting one-line questions and answers, but as in so many other situations, you'll get out what you put in.
 
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robDL24 said:
So I’m not a very social person irl so I prefer to make friends online anybody have any good tips
Just be yourself, there’s so many people in the same boat as you and I. we All have a kink otherwise we wouldn’t be here, so ask anything, and have fun, 👍🏻😁
 
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