Tips for Public Wearing

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diaperedteenager

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Tips for public Wearing

Okay, I know that there is some stuff about this already in the Wiki, but if someone could add this to it that would be most grand.

So, I have worn in public many many times. It is no big deal! For people who are worried about getting caught, you most likely will not, unless you are at like a YMCA or some place where you have to get undressed.
-I have worn to a dead scilent libray with an assurence on, I could barley hear it myself, so I don’t think anyone else did.
- It is hard to even notice someone wearing a bulky diaper, unless you are a girl and go out in skinny jeans. Sure, there is an added size to your butt, but that isn’t the focus point on your body. I have worn a secure X-plus out in public and looking in the miror I could see a diaper bulge, but only because I knew what was on underneath, for the passer-by-er they won’t beable to tell.
- If you need to mess, I caution you not to do it in your diaper, It is hard to clean up in a public restroom, plus it is just rude to make others smell that. But, I have done it once and the advice IU have for that, do it in a stall in your diaper. Or close to one, then change in there.

So, bottom line… You need not fear getting caught. Even if you are in a library chances are getting caught are slim, now If someone who see’s you frequently are there, then your detecion risk is slightly higher, but anyways don’t be afraid!
 

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While it's good information, it's better to have information in the Wiki that isn't personal experiences...Like for you, you shouldn't give your example of what happened, but just have it has a more generic information...That way more people can related to it
 

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I am a girl and I wear skinny jeans! damn!


Tight jeans cut down on noise, I know that from personal experience. Try using a larger belt, or a waist scarf/sash, or a larger shirt. There are things you could do that prevent the diaper from being noticed when wearing tight jeans.
 

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I kinda did...

Wear a larger shirt that covers most of your butt area.
Tuck in your shirt, and wear some sort of large belt, or waist scarf.
Tie a sweater around your waist.
Don't wear an overly bulky diaper, like a Bambino.
Carry around a large purse or bag that you could use to quickly hide your front or back if you think someone is paying particular attention.
 

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I wear quite a lot. Most of the time except for work..And one in a wile ther too. Most people do not noice anythin outsde of their little bubble. So one you arecofortable waring then you wil noteven notice if smeone doesnotice ou ae wering.
 
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Well, I hope this helps you out. I wear 24/7/365. I use large and thick cloth diapers for several reasons, for which I won't into again here, {check my profile if you want to know} but I use pants that are a size larger, and wear a long shirt that I don't tuck in, so it helps hide my butt. You can tell I'm wearing if you get a look at my bottom, but I try not to let anyone get a good look. I have never ever had anyone ask me, or make a rude comment about it that I've ever heard anyways, so I think I'm doing a good job of hiding it.
All my friends and family already know, because of the reason I wear, so I don't have to worry about them anymore.

When I was using disposables, they weren't really noticeable, just not very effective at controlling my problem.
 

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It has been my experience that people often don't pay attention to what goes under the trousers. I had a situation once, where I had to exchange a pad system in a public restroom, which was very crowded with no privacy. The others there were very understanding of the situation, and for the most part not an eyebrow was raised. It's a medical issue that can happen to anyone. I am willing to bet that a couple of them started giving some thought about their futures: "What would I do if this were to happen to me?".

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I've publicly worn once and it only lasted about 30 minutes, I went for a walk downtown and then took it off before class.

However! Some advice I must give is stick to the either a cloth covered diaper since they create almost no noise depending on the brand or make sure to wear proper clothing over your diaper such as a pair of underwear and a tucked in shirt. It would also help if you focused on your surroundings rather than what you're wearing, makes you seem less suspicious.
 
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For the most part, the only tip is that people aren't listening for diaper sounds as much as you are...odds are they won't even come close to hearing unless it's either really loud and obvious, or you're somewhere where it's absolutely silent. Otherwise, just gain whatever confidence you can (maybe go somewhere further from home and go to a mall or something).
 

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I haven't read this thread, but I am sure all the usual ones like underwear other diapers, loose clothes to hide a bulge or tight ones to hide noise etc. have been trotted out by now. However, there is one thing that I feel is more important than any other ones and that is...

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People don't know you are wearing diapers. People don't expect you to be wearing diapers. People aren't looking for you to be wearing diapers. If you don't act like something is up, then they won't suspect a thing. And even if they do notice - they are some random person on the street you will probably never ever come across. They will assume - quite logically - that you wear them for medical reasons and will be too embarrassed to raise it with you, even on the pitiful offchance that they manage to overcome homo sapiens terminal lack of observentness (or whatever the word is) and actually notice you have a diaper on. Keep your cool and act as if nothing is wrong ... and, as if by magic, nothing is wrong.

If it helps, think about it this way. There is nothing wrong with you wearing diapers. Okay, maybe it isn't normal for the average member of the public, but it is perfectly normal and there is a sensible reason for you to wear them. Other people may not know what said reason is, but there is one and as long as you remember that people will just pick up on the fact that there is a sensible reason for you to wear them. In fact, they are more likely to pick up the fact that you have a sensible reason for wearing them, then the fact that you actually are wearing them.

People almost certainly won't notice your choice of clothing unless you take steps to show it off. Even if they do, they will assume there is a reason for you to wear them, and won't want to cause embarrassment. Unless you act like an idiot and effectively go round saying Ooh, look at my underwear!!!! It's a DIAPER!!! it is very simple - NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

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Keep this thread going, newbies don't know about the wiki anyway, I don't look at it too often as I already know most of what is in it, and threads always get re created every few months anyway, which doesn't bother me, so keep on rolling. (REO Speedwagon.)
 

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I haven't read this thread, but I am sure all the usual ones like underwear other diapers, loose clothes to hide a bulge or tight ones to hide noise etc. have been trotted out by now. However, there is one thing that I feel is more important than any other ones and that is...

don%27t%20panic.jpg


People don't know you are wearing diapers. People don't expect you to be wearing diapers. People aren't looking for you to be wearing diapers. If you don't act like something is up, then they won't suspect a thing. And even if they do notice - they are some random person on the street you will probably never ever come across. They will assume - quite logically - that you wear them for medical reasons and will be too embarrassed to raise it with you, even on the pitiful offchance that they manage to overcome homo sapiens terminal lack of observentness (or whatever the word is) and actually notice you have a diaper on. Keep your cool and act as if nothing is wrong ... and, as if by magic, nothing is wrong.

If it helps, think about it this way. There is nothing wrong with you wearing diapers. Okay, maybe it isn't normal for the average member of the public, but it is perfectly normal and there is a sensible reason for you to wear them. Other people may not know what said reason is, but there is one and as long as you remember that people will just pick up on the fact that there is a sensible reason for you to wear them. In fact, they are more likely to pick up the fact that you have a sensible reason for wearing them, then the fact that you actually are wearing them.

People almost certainly won't notice your choice of clothing unless you take steps to show it off. Even if they do, they will assume there is a reason for you to wear them, and won't want to cause embarrassment. Unless you act like an idiot and effectively go round saying Ooh, look at my underwear!!!! It's a DIAPER!!! it is very simple - NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

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Wearing a diaper or other protection out in public shouldn't be a real concern for anyone. After all, many are forced to use protection on a daily basis. Furthermore, consider what may come from disposable incontinent garments, namely disposable underwear for everyone, some with or without absorbent areas.
 
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