There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of wearing diapers :(

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Bryce

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So, here's my problem. There's never a day that goes by that I don't think about wearing a diaper. Getting diapers isn't the problem as I have a case that I ordered a while ago when I decided to go 24/7 but never did. That's well hidden so it's not gonna be found. So, I thought I was going to try 24/7, but I chickened out as I'm still at home and now I can't even find a time to wear diapers at all. The only time I can wear is when I'm away from my family and since I work from home and my mom is always at home there's no way I can possibly wear them during the day as she's constantly calling on me to do something, etc.

Even though I'm 20, I still am at home just because I don't have the funds to move out, though that's what I'm saving up for right now. Is this normal or ok to always think about wearing diapers every single day of the week? Any advice anyone can give me would be great.

Thanks in advance.
 

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I think about them probably at least once a day...So I'd say it's pretty normal...At least this time is giving you a chance to learn some self control over it, but if you really want to do it, then make time for it...You're an adult, you can do what you want...Is your mom the kind of person that would kick you out for some "You Time"?
 

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You are unable to wear them. Not only that, you have them but you are still unable to wear them. They are there taunting you. I know that when I didn't have any I thought about them every day. I imagine having them and still not being able to wear them must be even worse. However, unless you can get more used to wearing around your mother, I am afraid that I can't see a way for you to help this. Just try not to worry about the fact that you want to wear them every day. I know times when I have thought about that. It is just as normal as wanting to wear diapers themselves is.

Also, a very simple motto I live by. 'If you want something enough, you can find a way to do it.' This is a double edged sword. If you think about it enough you should be able to find a way to wear them. However, make sure you aren't taking risks to get what you want, if you can't live with the results if the risk occurs.
 
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Well, even though you are living at home, you still have your own room, right? Just wear diapers to bed. At least you'll get some usage that way.
 

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Being 24/7... I wear around my parents whenever I see them. It's not that often, but still... it's not like they are staring at my arse all day either. I did wear less when I lived at with my folks... but what the others have said is right... you can wear to bed at the very least.
 

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ive been there myself, do you drive? when i had that problem i would wear to the store, even if it was only 15 minutes, that was enough time to curb the problem, i didnt use it, and it was usually the same one, but it was better than nothing :)
 

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Well, if you want to wear more around the family, perhaps you should consider a discreet diaper. The pull up types like depend refastenables really do disappear under clothing. I knew people who did wear them for need, I knew they wore them but I couldn't tell that they were wearing, even with my well trained diaper spotting eyes. Now, wearing an abena x-plus around family is risky, but many of the store bought brands are cloth covered, quite thin and extremely discreet.

You may want to consider wearing something like the abena body stocking h++p://xpmedical.com/accessories.html, I have one of those myself and it helps compress the diaper a bit and prevents it from peeking out the back of your pants. Only real downside is if you plan to use them, the thinner diapers are going to be lacking in capacity. If none of that would work, just wear them to bed and make sure to lock your door, assuming you have a room to yourself and a door that locks of course.
 

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My room's the only one in the house that locks so that's not a problem. I do wear when I go out alone and all, but theres usually not much of an excuse for me to go out unless it's to the library for a few hours and even then it's just to wear diapers although I take my laptop with me so I'm not completely bored. Other than that, it's just a waste of gas for me as I've got nothing productive to do while I'm out.

I do wear while I sleep most nights though while I listen to hypnosis (i know, if it happens to work I'm screwed). Right now I'm just trying to save up some money so I can afford rent or a house payment so I can move out.
 

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So, here's my problem. There's never a day that goes by that I don't think about wearing a diaper. Getting diapers isn't the problem as I have a case that I ordered a while ago when I decided to go 24/7 but never did. That's well hidden so it's not gonna be found. So, I thought I was going to try 24/7, but I chickened out as I'm still at home and now I can't even find a time to wear diapers at all. The only time I can wear is when I'm away from my family and since I work from home and my mom is always at home there's no way I can possibly wear them during the day as she's constantly calling on me to do something, etc.

Even though I'm 20, I still am at home just because I don't have the funds to move out, though that's what I'm saving up for right now. Is this normal or ok to always think about wearing diapers every single day of the week? Any advice anyone can give me would be great.

Thanks in advance.
Um, you didn't ask a question in all of that, so I really dont' know what to say.:dunno:
 

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I know I think about diapers at least once a day, so I have to guess that it's not abnormal. I have a similar problem in that I have diapers well hidden and accessible in my house, but can't wear them because my family is around. The temptation is there, but logic holds me back and partially for that very reason, diapers are very often on my mind. I guess my mind just goes there naturally whenever I'm thinking about sexual things.
 

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Don't worry about thinking about diapers everyday as most dl's do.

The problem that you have is that you are far too close to your family 24/7.

You need to escape and get yourself some space as all guys and girls your age must do. I think you need to make friends with somebody so that you can go away for a night or two. You may find someone near to where you live on this site or Daily Diapers has a link called Meeting Place.
 

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So, here's my problem. There's never a day that goes by that I don't think about wearing a diaper. Getting diapers isn't the problem as I have a case that I ordered a while ago when I decided to go 24/7 but never did. That's well hidden so it's not gonna be found. So, I thought I was going to try 24/7, but I chickened out as I'm still at home and now I can't even find a time to wear diapers at all. The only time I can wear is when I'm away from my family and since I work from home and my mom is always at home there's no way I can possibly wear them during the day as she's constantly calling on me to do something, etc.

Even though I'm 20, I still am at home just because I don't have the funds to move out, though that's what I'm saving up for right now. Is this normal or ok to always think about wearing diapers every single day of the week? Any advice anyone can give me would be great.

Thanks in advance.
Um, you didn't ask a question in all of that, so I really dont' know what to say.:dunno:
Actually, he did ask a question...

Anyways
I've been through this too, in fact I'd wager that most of us have. If you can't get something (in one way or another and often enough or to our satisfaction) and really want it, it will become the center of our focus. Kind of like when your hungry. I liken it to hunger as humans naturally encounter this drive, much like we also naturally encouter sexual and emotional drives. Oviously since you have associated diapers somewhat with sexuality, not satisfiing that drive will cause you to think about it more and more, until it is satisfied. I don't think you will encouter the effects of the latter until your situation changes and you are able to endulge whenever you please.

And remember, "normal" is relative to the perception of whom it is considered.
 

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I hear you, man. Maybe it'll go away with adolescence, though, eh? Teens and young adults are very sexually driven, and as a TB/AB/DL, I think our minds are usually occupied with things that go along with the fetish rather than 'normal' thoughts of secks.
 

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Would becoming 'anonymous' and sending some positive information about diaper lovers to my mom's email be a way to go or would that just lead to problems? It's just a random thought that popped into my head.
 

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Bad idea. That will probably just make your mom think abdls are crazies that stalk other people. Don't do it.

How long has this urge been present? I too felt that way for a while, but after 6 months of not getting much in the way of diapers, it's pretty much gone. Now I just wear 2 or 3 times a week.

But like I said in another thread, if this urge is becoming a problem, don't encourage it! Stop listening to that hypnosis stuff, and don't cave into your need unless it's really really strong. Let it build up, and as an added bonus, it'll feel better when you finally release. Eventually you'll get used to your reduced "intake". They key, imho, with any fetish is healthy management.
 

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Would becoming 'anonymous' and sending some positive information about diaper lovers to my mom's email be a way to go or would that just lead to problems? It's just a random thought that popped into my head.
That's a horribly stupid idea...Why do you want her to know? What benefits will arise from this? Probably none...She won't just start buying you diapers, and even if she's accepting, it's not an invitation to just starting wearing in front of her...My mom kind of knows, and I still try to hide it...It's not exactly something I wanted her to know, and it's not something she needs to be continually reminded of
 

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I didn't mean to have it sound like I want her to know, but I think that would be best that way I didn't have to try to hide, which I still would. Ah, just forget it, I was crazy when I made that and this post. Stupid idea I know...
 

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My advice is to get a better job or a second job and move out ASAP. Just do the move and you will find a way to make it work money wise. Once you are living on your own wearing diapers will be totally on your terms without having to worry about parents etc.
 

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I fap at least once a day, so I also think about alternative underwear at least once a day.
I don't think it's particularly abnormal for a fetishist. Although, if you're doing something completely unrelated to diapers and still can't get them off your head, then try to... uh, think about something else? >.>
Because that can't be good for your studies, if applicable.
 

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i think about it about 3 to 6 times a day, my diaper needs changing
 
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