My definition of incontinence is when you can't. Make it to the restroom even if its the next room. You did not realize you pee your pants and last you can't stop the pee or hold. It . I was told only doctors can say you are. Incontinence. So what. I am saying is. What are good signs. Of incontinence. I dont believe. I am. Based on i pee alot if I drank water coffee and beer. And I know I have pee before 25 minutes otherwise i pee in my pants. That. Is just a weak bladder right? I know there is different kinds of incontinence. And I do fall in one type. And lastly I dont want to be incontinence. Just enjoy diapers