The Embarrassment Factor

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EmeraldRegice

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So i'm going to straightforward and blunt about this. I really have been lately been exploring the publicity of wearing a diaper around out in public. It is hard for me to describe the mixed feelings I get. I get happy, excited, slightly embarrassed, but the thrill of it is a driving factor. Does anyone else just enjoy the rush and excitement of being seen wearing a diaper out in public and how does it play into your life?

I really want to play into the fantasy where it is a punishment and finding a way in my mind to get into that type of mindset can be hard if you really want it to be happening.
 

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Do you mean you're wearing them in public in non discrete manners? Like - are you out essentially begging to be confronted or "caught"?

Or is the possibility relatively small and you just have kind of an understated anxiety? If it's that, I definitely relate - although it really varies based on the situation. I'm always. Always. Discrete when I wear in public. I don't want to drag people into my kink without their consent.
But yes, the remote chance of being discovered somehow does kind of create fear that sometimes feels like excitement... I don't think I actually want it to happen and certainly many times I don't even feel the anxiety in the first place - it's just normal to be wearing.

Anyways just wanted to shout out and say I don't think you're alone in this!


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Hey, It's just UNDERWEAR, wear whatever kind you like!
 

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There is a part of wearing diapers and regression that includes shaming. I feel that and would like to explore it but I would have too much to lose. I also wouldn't want to have to live with the social fallout, but I like to fantasize about it. I enjoy reading stories about forced regression, domination and then forced embarrassment, but for me, it's much better left in a story than real life.
 

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So i'm going to straightforward and blunt about this. I really have been lately been exploring the publicity of wearing a diaper around out in public. It is hard for me to describe the mixed feelings I get. I get happy, excited, slightly embarrassed, but the thrill of it is a driving factor. Does anyone else just enjoy the rush and excitement of being seen wearing a diaper out in public and how does it play into your life?

I really want to play into the fantasy where it is a punishment and finding a way in my mind to get into that type of mindset can be hard if you really want it to be happening.

I love wearing a nice thick night time nappy and crinkly plastic pants under my jeans in public. No one has ever said anything to me but really you would have to be both deaf and blind not to notice. I honestly don't think anyone cares.
 

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For me the "no one knows im wearing or peeing" feeling is nicer. I wouldnt like anybody to see or find out im wearing but there is also people who likes the embarrassment of someone seeing. Some reason the first times were more exciting than doing it now when im more used to it.
 

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I've messed myself quite noticeably in front of store clerks from like walmart and meijer and other stores, I get that embarrassment too, it's kind of a good type of embarrassment though.
 

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I've messed myself quite noticeably in front of store clerks from like walmart and meijer and other stores, I get that embarrassment too, it's kind of a good type of embarrassment though.
Meijer? You from Michigan ? I am. where are you at?
 

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Or is the possibility relatively small and you just have kind of an understated anxiety? If it's that, I definitely relate - although it really varies based on the situation. I'm always. Always. Discrete when I wear in public. I don't want to drag people into my kink without their consent.
But yes, the remote chance of being discovered somehow does kind of create fear that sometimes feels like excitement... I don't think I actually want it to happen and certainly many times I don't even feel the anxiety in the first place - it's just normal to be wearing.

Anyways just wanted to shout out and say I don't think you're alone in this!

This describes how I feel exactly!

I much enjoy wearing in public, especially when wet. I do what I can to stay as discrete as possible, however I have relaxed a little since the first time I wore in public. What I mean by this is I used to wear the thinnest, yet still functional, diaper that I could. However, I now wear whatever diaper I want; no matter the thickness or crinkliness. In reality, the non-diaper wearing public is not going around looking or listening to see if someone is wearing a diaper. The crinkliness would only be noticeable in the quietest of places (library?), as long as you take the necessary steps to lessen the crinkle. For me, I make sure to wear boxer briefs over the diaper, then whatever I want over that. I tend to wear longer shirts to make sure the waistband stays hidden if I bend over; however I could really care less if someone happens to see the waistband of my diaper anyway. I wouldn't purposefully expose it, but if it did happen it's really none of their business why I would be wearing a diaper.

With all that being said, I still get that feeling of slight embarrassment and excitement when I wear in public. I believe the shame and embarrassment of "having" to wear a diaper is par for the course when you're an ABDL. I much enjoy it.
 

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I wear my diaper more or less discreetly in public, so I'm usually not "being seen wearing a diaper".

Even when wearing them discreetly, there was a certain thrill to it at first, but that wore off surprisingly quickly.
 

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The excitement of "being seen wearing a diaper out in public" is quite real. Every time I go out wearing it is exciting for me. However there is a difference between "being seen" wearing a diaper, and having the diaper you are wearing being seen by the public. One is thrilling. The other, if done intentionally, is simply forcing your fetish onto an unsuspecting and unwilling public. I suspect you are in the first category and want to enjoy the thrill of wearing in public with a slim chance of anyone else really noticing. But it is that slim chance of actually being caught that keeps it exciting and edgy...
 

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When I'm out and wearing an untucked shirt, I do find myself periodically tugging it down in the back, but much less so than years ago. A couple times I did purposely wear a shirt that I knew would ride up. Really, the main reason I wear a diaper is to avoid finding a restroom when the urge hits, and thoughts of embarrassment are largely gone. As another poster said, it's just your underwear.
 
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